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    Hello all,

    I am a new to the christian world. I really don't know how to put it.

    I know its a sin to have had sex before marriage, but what if its rape? even by your own relative?
    He says its not sinful that he is just teaching me how to be obedient for when i get married. I have no other close family, and don't know where to go.

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    Incest is a nogo..rape is the sin of the rapist..the victim is not at fault..
    Im sorry to ask such a weird question but is it rape?
    If it is then he is sinning horribly and God will surly cast him to hell for it if he doesnt stop and repent.
    You have to call the police and get a doctor to check you out. Your waay too young for sex. Waaay too young
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    Alone bodily your too young...thats so sick
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    you need to call the police, and get protection, That man is evil, If your husband or future husband knew you were doing this, HE WOULD GO NUTS!!
    Eternally Grateful for the grace God has shown a wretched soul such as myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by annabelle2-2 View Post
    Hello all,

    I am a new to the christian world. I really don't know how to put it.

    I know its a sin to have had sex before marriage, but what if its rape? even by your own relative?
    He says its not sinful that he is just teaching me how to be obedient for when i get married. I have no other close family, and don't know where to go.
    If this is happening to you, you need to tell a teacher or someone. Molestation is not a learning experience, what he is doing is a sin.

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    EG, she's only 13...


    Quote Originally Posted by eternally-gratefull View Post
    you need to call the police, and get protection, That man is evil, If your husband or future husband knew you were doing this, HE WOULD GO NUTS!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by pottersclay View Post
    Blue_ladybug is innocent, as we know in scripture " all people who like orange tabbies are innocent."
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    LOL.. I'll use that defense the next time I get accused of something.. lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by blue_ladybug View Post
    EG, she's only 13...
    That makes it worse.. That man does not love her, He hates her, and is abusing her,, He deserves jail.
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    The age of consent in Canada is 16. Sex with a minor is rape.
    The rapist needs to be reported for his perverse criminal behaviour.
    Go to the police!
    Embrace the Grace and Rejoice in His Everlasting Mercy and Love.

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    A person can be taught to be obedient in marriage with out any sexual relations to be used an example. There are many mothers who teach & give their daughters marriage advice. The excuse that person gave is a lie & sounds like they said it cope with what they did. I'm sorry if that has happened to you or anyone you know.
    Romans 10:13 - For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
    Acts 3:19 - Repent therefore and turn to God, so that your sins may be blotted out, in order that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord.
    Ephesians 6:11 - Put on the whole armor of God, so that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.

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    Dial 911 forthwith.

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    If you are the victim of rape you are NOT sinning. It does not matter who that person is. It does not matter what reason the give. If you are being forced or coerced into sexual behaviors it is not your fault.
    Another person (whether your age or older) is never expected to 'teach' you marital obedience through forced sex. Obedience is a willing behavior reserved for the respectable, loving man you one day choose to marry. Not something you blindly do or are trained to do.

    Call the police or go to a teacher/pastor/leader that you trust and they will make sure to put an end to this situation. And if they don't, then find one who will. This man is breaking the law and sinning against God
    Give me a new voice
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    Not jail....a bullet.. omg i cant believe this..thay poor girl thats just killing me
    Quote Originally Posted by eternally-gratefull View Post
    That makes it worse.. That man does not love her, He hates her, and is abusing her,, He deserves jail.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Demi777 View Post
    Not jail....a bullet.. omg i cant believe this..thay poor girl thats just killing me
    They carry out procedures perfect for that man in the vet office.

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    Quote Originally Posted by annabelle2-2 View Post
    Hello all,

    I am a new to the christian world. I really don't know how to put it.

    I know its a sin to have had sex before marriage, but what if its rape? even by your own relative?
    He says its not sinful that he is just teaching me how to be obedient for when i get married. I have no other close family, and don't know where to go.
    Annebelle, they're right. What this man is doing to you is his sin. It is dangerous for both you and him. You need to get out of this situation NOW. Please contact the police, or a pastor or teacher that you know and trust. You need to get out of this situation. He is NOT teaching you to be obedient when you are married, God has naturally put that into your heart and you do not need this man's abuse to "help". In the long run, this will hurt you far worse than you know.
    Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EmilyNats View Post
    They carry out procedures perfect for that man in the vet office.
    I like this better..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Demi777 View Post
    Not jail....a bullet.. omg i cant believe this..thay poor girl thats just killing me
    Demi,
    You have been a good friend, and I hope this doesn't creep anyone out. I am a Christian, but there are people on this earth I could look in the eye and choke the life from them and sleep like a baby afterwards. Some people are just animals and like some animals, they need killing.
    You have no idea how much I agree with you about this guy needing a bullet.

    Annabelle,
    This persons abuse ain't your sin. Call the police. "Marriage obedience " is some made up crap he is using to manipulate you. Call the police. I can promise you that Canada has laws against this.

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    Annabelle just want you to know there are people you can contact to help you and what your family member is doing is messed up. The Lord does not want this for you and this can lead to a lot of confusion and complications in your life, however Jesus Christ is the great healer and he can deliver you completely. I know how this can affect a family because it's happened to my own sisters. If you need someone to talk to I am from Canada and I know good Christians in most provinces who can help. Your welcome to call or txt me as well. My email is [email protected]. Ph # 306-370-4686. God loves you very much Child
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    You shouldn't have publicly given out your personal info on here for millions of people to see. Your info is searchable on any search engine.. Hope you don't get any obscene phone calls or emails.. :/

    Not to mention, a full grown man telling a 13 year old girl to call or email him, kinda raises red flags here..





    Quote Originally Posted by pottersclay View Post
    Blue_ladybug is innocent, as we know in scripture " all people who like orange tabbies are innocent."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy379 View Post
    Demi,
    You have been a good friend, and I hope this doesn't creep anyone out. I am a Christian, but there are people on this earth I could look in the eye and choke the life from them and sleep like a baby afterwards. Some people are just animals and like some animals, they need killing.
    You have no idea how much I agree with you about this guy needing a bullet.

    Annabelle,
    This persons abuse ain't your sin. Call the police. "Marriage obedience " is some made up crap he is using to manipulate you. Call the police. I can promise you that Canada has laws against this.
    I found the sentence, "Choke the life from them and sleep like a baby afterwards" to be mildly disturbing, but I'm just gonna say this...there's a reason God made some sins punishable by death. There is no excuse for this stuff. It makes me sick and do you know what is worse? There is often such a thing as repeat offenders.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tinuviel View Post
    I found the sentence, "Choke the life from them and sleep like a baby afterwards" to be mildly disturbing,
    I've felt that way before, so I was nodding as I read his post. Lol

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