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    One thing I find annoying. People hiding behind anonymous rep comments. If you won't say it directly to me then it means nothing to me.
    And I treat my gf very well. Feel free to ask her if you doubt it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MattieD View Post
    Me and my gf broke up today. Im not really sure how to handle this. We broke up because her dad disapproves of me which is stupid because im not a bad guy. I know im not the most best behaved kid in the world but compared to some of her exs im an angel. I really love her and I dont want to just lose her. I would do anything to get her back and I know she wants me back too. But I dont know if we get back together it would really piss off her dad which might not be a good idea. But I dont know if I can be happy without her.
    Gotta admit you aren't sounding very Christian right now sir it seems like you have an idol which might be a sanctification process for you. Second we shoukd always be complete with Christ we don't need anything else yea it should hurt but it shouldn't make you feel THIS bad. And finally you should honor what he said and leave her alone simple it sucks but we as Christians have things to do and God wouldn't want you going against her father regardless of yoir feelings. And once again, sorry to keep pointing things out i cant ignore them though, we should try to be humble and never think of ourselves as better then anyone in any type of way maybe the Lord is trying to get you more mature and sanctified through this? Maybe you should worry more about your Christian walk i know you are trying to do the right thing and you seem pretty sincere i hooe this helps regardless all things work for your good be happy God bless.
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    Ive spoken to her dad and he mainly didn't approve because he'd heard about me getting into a fight but that wasnt a proper physical fight just some guy was bullying my foster brother so i said some things to him. But her dad agreed that if in January we still want to be together and as long as i haven't done anything bad in that time then he'll be okay with that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MattieD View Post
    Ive spoken to her dad and he mainly didn't approve because he'd heard about me getting into a fight but that wasnt a proper physical fight just some guy was bullying my foster brother so i said some things to him. But her dad agreed that if in January we still want to be together and as long as i haven't done anything bad in that time then he'll be okay with that.
    I'm glad you talked to her dad. Having a relationship that is not sanctioned by parents is never a good idea...age aside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Corbinscam View Post
    Dude, you're 14. Save yourself several years of idiocy and find a good hobby and forget about girls for about 6 years.
    Just stop the nonsense of dating at 14. It's stupid. I've been there....I've done that. If I could do it again I'd take my own advice.
    Just stop. Her dad is trying to protect his daughter....maybe he hasn't always but now he is. Good for him...good for her. Get over it. And get a hobby that doesn't include a girl.
    This is very well said....I agree he should be focused on his schoolwork and save all that dating nonsense for later when he matures a bit....
    I am the former ultimatum77.....dah dah dah......

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