Sex before marriage?

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Tintin

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i am a Christian Zoii and this site has many Christians you don't even call your self one why do you post here and does the bible say condoms are ok? NO if God wanted us to use them he would say use something to SOTP THE NATRULE AFECT GOD MADE
this is why sex if for marriage and if you don't want kids don't have sex with your wife/ husband simple

point condoms are not right by the bible and sex before marriage is a SIN
Sure, simple. Because sex is only for procreating.
 
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TheBlackDove

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Thank you if God wants us to do something or not to do something he tells us


and he does not say to use a condom or any form like it
 
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Uh, what you are saying is that protective sex, at any age, is better than sex with NO protection...leaving GOD entirely out of the equation..how convenient! You are looking at it like "SEX is just SEX", all do it..and all have repercussions unless PROTECTED, so, CHRISTIAN or not, stay protected. It also sounds like a neutering advertisement by the local animal shelters. "Let's keep all pets neutered!". lol
 
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TheBlackDove

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God opens and closes the womb of a woman is all I will say.
 
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TheBlackDove

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Uh, what you are saying is that protective sex, at any age, is better than sex with NO protection...leaving GOD entirely out of the equation..how convenient! You are looking at it like "SEX is just SEX", all do it..and all have repercussions unless PROTECTED, so, CHRISTIAN or not, stay protected. It also sounds like a neutering advertisement by the local animal shelters. "Let's keep all pets neutered!". lol
and to you sir I hold sex as a high gift from God something only a man and his wife to take part in something God ordained and has permited for a husband and his wife marriage is far more than sex it is Love sacrificing your self for one another agope love idk how to spell it but you know what I mean it is the Love we are supost to have for each other that Christ has for his church so I hold marriage as a very wonderful thing and I long to be a father and to marry my gf one day so Sir I do hold sex and marriage as a very high thing :)
 
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i am a Christian Zoii and this site has many Christians you don't even call your self one why do you post here and does the bible say condoms are ok? NO if God wanted us to use them he would say use something to SOTP THE NATRULE AFECT GOD MADE
this is why sex if for marriage and if you don't want kids don't have sex with your wife/ husband simple

point condoms are not right by the bible and sex before marriage is a SIN
Let me address your point
Your a Christian - OK that's great.
You stated I'm not - Well Ive never said that - I list myself as unsure because theres no option available to say that's between me and god
I post here because I am a CC member
Your main point is that there should be no sex before marriage because its a sin - yes most here would agree and as for me I have zero interest in sex so...yep all agreed.

Strangely enough though a lot of teens and young adults (or even old adults) may not listen to you or agree with you - they may well be Christians as well. But yet they will have sex, despite you or anyone else telling them how sinful they are.
themusicmiss in her post thought if that happens condoms should be used. I agree - so does the world health organisation and every single health authority around the world. I am particularly worried for women. They are more susceptible to STIs and pregnancies - and none of us would want that for them would we wolfgaming.
 
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TheBlackDove

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Let me address your point
Your a Christian - OK that's great.
You stated I'm not - Well Ive never said that - I list myself as unsure because theres no option available to say that's between me and god
I post here because I am a CC member
Your main point is that there should be no sex before marriage because its a sin - yes most here would agree and as for me I have zero interest in sex so...yep all agreed.

Strangely enough though a lot of teens and young adults (or even old adults) may not listen to you or agree with you - they may well be Christians as well. But yet they will have sex, despite you or anyone else telling them how sinful they are.
themusicmiss in her post thought if that happens condoms should be used. I agree - so does the world health organisation and every single health authority around the world. I am particularly worried for women. They are more susceptible to STIs and pregnancies - and none of us would want that for them would we wolfgaming.
don't ant to get pregnant dond HAVE SEX BOOM DONE and yes most don't care what God says but the will on judgment day when he sends them to hell for the sin unless they repent and turn form it.
 
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and to you sir I hold sex as a high gift from God something only a man and his wife to take part in something God ordained and has permited for a husband and his wife marriage is far more than sex it is Love sacrificing your self for one another agope love idk how to spell it but you know what I mean it is the Love we are supost to have for each other that Christ has for his church so I hold marriage as a very wonderful thing and I long to be a father and to marry my gf one day so Sir I do hold sex and marriage as a very high thing :)
Its OK wolfgaming - truly its Ok and your thoughts about no sex before marriage is respected. Your in the Teen room and we all respect each others views. That you have ideas of being a good father is superb. I wish all men thought like that...so dw OK. Your view regarding sex before marriage is regarded well. Others here were and are talking about people who cant or don't have your ideals.
 
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don't ant to get pregnant dond HAVE SEX BOOM DONE and yes most don't care what God says but the will on judgment day when he sends them to hell for the sin unless they repent and turn form it.
Well the hope is, that women don't have to suffer. Protection helps this. Your totally right - the 100% guarantee is DONT - but hey people are human and they do and who of us wants to see anyone suffer - I don't and I'm sure as a Christian you wouldn't want to see a woman unnecessarily suffer either would you
 
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Thank you if God wants us to do something or not to do something he tells us


and he does not say to use a condom or any form like it
Wolfgaming you do realise that many married couples use condoms right.... its not in the bible but its a common form of birth control. ... actually I'm not too sure what CC memebers think about birth control in marriage but then hey... that's kinda moving away from the topic
 
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Tintin

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Whoa Tin TIn long time - how ru...
Hi Zoii. I'm good thanks, mate. How are you going? It's a little chilly, but I suppose it's Winter. :)
 
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Hi Zoii. I'm good thanks, mate. How are you going? It's a little chilly, but I suppose it's Winter. :)
Actually.. this was the warmest day in June - EVER
 
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Tintin

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Actually.. this was the warmest day in June - EVER
Ah. You must not live in Adelaide, South Australia then. Enjoy the sun while it still exists. Have a blessed night, mate. ;)
 
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TheBlackDove

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Wolfgaming you do realise that many married couples use condoms right.... its not in the bible but its a common form of birth control. ... actually I'm not too sure what CC memebers think about birth control in marriage but then hey... that's kinda moving away from the topic
a Man was stoned for having sex with a woman but letting his seed not inter her witch he was commanded to do becase he married his brothers wife when he died and I guess he was supost to keep the line going but instead letting it his seed spill on to the floor *shudder* aka birth control soooooo yep if God does not want you to have a child he can open and close the womb of a woman and like I said if you don't want to get pregnant don't have sex :) and if you do great but I feel that birth control is not right and it goes aginst what I bilive thank you for being kind to me Zoii I am sorry if I was ever rude to you but understand that a lot of people thing it is ok that is why I seem radical on a lot of things no bithdays ect but I am a Loving Christian and want to ecpress my thoughs and bealifes thanks for reading this.
 
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Rosesrock

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I was 11 4 years ago so... yeah probably good its come up agai9n.... dont you think? I think actually its something teens should discuss more often.
I agree, is there a question??
#1 The bible states that sex is for a married couple
#2 keep you body a living sacrifice, holy acceptable
 
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Gee I'd like to weigh-in to this conversation .... but in the Teen Room at nearly 70, it's probably not appropriate.
 
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faniehennig

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For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
For to be carnally minded is death;
but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
Because the carnal mind is enmity against God:
for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God. - Rom 8
 
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Gee I'd like to weigh-in to this conversation .... but in the Teen Room at nearly 70, it's probably not appropriate.
lol well weigh-in. Its not stopped anyone else over 19 so dont worry. When teens just want TEEN comment we usually say so.... well I do anyway.
 
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I would just like to apply for the position of President of the Zoii Fan Club.

She is more articulate and demonstrates a far greater maturity of thought than most contributors to CC.

In my ever-humble opinion, of course :D