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The emotion and reason behind the kiss answer if it's a sin or not; if you and your girlfriend both love God with all your heart and that kiss is not a shortcoming of sexual acts then it is not a sin, but if it is a shortcoming of a sexual act then it is a sin.
A great book i reccomend you to read is every man's battle, it talks about and answers questions dealing with sexual impurity great read for any male looking for answers.
A great book i reccomend you to read is every man's battle, it talks about and answers questions dealing with sexual impurity great read for any male looking for answers.
Saying 'thinking about her in a sexual way is wrong' may have moral value, but don't forget we are only human. Humans = animals, and animals = drive for reproduction. If you think about someone sexually, you're not lowering your value as a human, you're simply reacting the way nature intended. Now, if you ACT on those thoughts, then by all means, it is completely wrong, until the correct situation is acquired - marriage. Now, thinking about her in a sexual way is a LONG SHOT from kissing, and kissing is just another way of expressing affection. In what way is kissing more important than hugging or snuggling (if snuggling be for nothing but comfort, and not sexual pleasure), and is it in the Bible? Personally, restrictions on kissing sound about as logical as restrictions on where you're allowed to hang a poster on your wall.
If God didn't want us to have sexual thoughts about the one you are currently in relationship with, he wouldn't have made us part of Nature, which thrives on reproduction. Having said that, people may say that it's a test of temptation, but honestly, thoughts are thoughts. If God were to control our minds to get rid of these thoughts, free will would be void. So, if you have these thoughts, you aren't tarnishing God's name. You're being human. Just don't act on them, 'kay?
If God didn't want us to have sexual thoughts about the one you are currently in relationship with, he wouldn't have made us part of Nature, which thrives on reproduction. Having said that, people may say that it's a test of temptation, but honestly, thoughts are thoughts. If God were to control our minds to get rid of these thoughts, free will would be void. So, if you have these thoughts, you aren't tarnishing God's name. You're being human. Just don't act on them, 'kay?
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I think it's very ridiculous for anyone to tell u dat it's a sin to kiss ur girlfriend. If you're kissing her with bad motives,IT IS A SIN!, if your kissing is leading to something else, IT IS A SIN!.
But u know wat?, it's still very ridiculous to say you're kissing your girlfriend without bad motives, IT'S TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE!.Once you're kissing her, then something is on ur mind or getting into ur mind through d kiss. Except it's not really a kiss, if u get what i mean?. Just a normal peck on d cheek or bla bla bla...
SO YES, IT IS A SIN TO KISS YOUR GIRLFRIEND, BCOZ YOU CAN'T DO IT WITH A CLEAN MIND, EXCEPT YOU JUST WANT TO DECEIVE URSELF!
But u know wat?, it's still very ridiculous to say you're kissing your girlfriend without bad motives, IT'S TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE!.Once you're kissing her, then something is on ur mind or getting into ur mind through d kiss. Except it's not really a kiss, if u get what i mean?. Just a normal peck on d cheek or bla bla bla...
SO YES, IT IS A SIN TO KISS YOUR GIRLFRIEND, BCOZ YOU CAN'T DO IT WITH A CLEAN MIND, EXCEPT YOU JUST WANT TO DECEIVE URSELF!
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Well, the Bible speaks about Fornication and Adultery being a sin. Fornication is of course having sexual intercourse outside of marriage, while adultery is having sexual intercourse with someone who is not your spouse. There is no scripture that talks about premarital kissing, but there is a scripture that talks about 'looking at a woman with lust.' Jesus says in Matthews 5:28 "But I gurantee that whoesoever looks with lust at a woman has already committed adultery.' This passage of scripture undoubtly applies to women as well. If a women looks with lust at a man, she has also commited adultery in her heart. So to answer your question, 'is premarital kiss ok?' I figure that it would be because if it's a sin to look at someone with lust, then I'm sure that by kissing someone who is not your spouse is considered an act of fornication. Sex is a sacred gift. We should not defile that gift. If the LORD God says that we are to marry first, then we should marry first. We ought not touch or kiss anyone in a sexual manner if we are not married to them. It's not so much for a religious reason, but it's also a health reason too. Take for example, what if you kissed your girlfriend numerous times, but then after 3 years you want to break up with her? Y'all would then go see other people, who perhaps kissed other peolpe numerous of times in the past. A kiss is no difference from sex. If you had sex with one girl, but then got tired of her and went to see other women, who knew how many men have they slept with. That's how AIDS are spread. People always say, "Anyone can get AIDS, even if they're sleeping with one person." But how do you know that that person actually slept with one person? How many boyfriends has she had before she met you? AIDS are not only contracted through sex, but also through a mere kiss. I know that you are young, and you want to experience what it's like to have a girlfrined, but seek God first, listen to Him, and know the scriptures.
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You need to watch your words brother! Seems to me that you need to be humbled. This isn't the first post of yours where you have done such name calling. Don't be so quick to think you are wise, especially if you cannot even control your own tongue.
Proverbs 4:24
Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
Proverbs 6:12
A naughty person, a wicked man, walketh with a froward mouth.
Proverbs 8:13
The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.
Proverbs 13:3
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
Proverbs 21:23
Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Actually just read the whole book of Proverbs, your mouth is completely out of line and God will not tolerate such wickedness.
Proverbs 4:24
Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
Proverbs 6:12
A naughty person, a wicked man, walketh with a froward mouth.
Proverbs 8:13
The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.
Proverbs 13:3
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
Proverbs 21:23
Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Actually just read the whole book of Proverbs, your mouth is completely out of line and God will not tolerate such wickedness.
Lmao... So you're telling me I kiss my mum with bad motives?
I think it's being blown way out of proportion if I kiss someone it's a sign off affection, it's a good way to get close to someone, to be honest if you can't kiss someone without having... a problem. Besides, the arousal itself is not the problem, it's thinking ''Hang on... I wanna have sex...'' or something along those lines. So yes kiss away, however don't do it for the wrong reasons.
So if you kiss and you feel something good, don't worry it's natural you can't just say ''Hey hormones... leave me be.'' Just be careful your thoughts don't wonder and you develop a hidden agenda.
I think it's being blown way out of proportion if I kiss someone it's a sign off affection, it's a good way to get close to someone, to be honest if you can't kiss someone without having... a problem. Besides, the arousal itself is not the problem, it's thinking ''Hang on... I wanna have sex...'' or something along those lines. So yes kiss away, however don't do it for the wrong reasons.
So if you kiss and you feel something good, don't worry it's natural you can't just say ''Hey hormones... leave me be.'' Just be careful your thoughts don't wonder and you develop a hidden agenda.