Will it ever happen?

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gigitgirl

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I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend. I always say that when its time, it'll happen. But its been 16 years. I feel like I'll never find anyone and I'll always be alone. I find myself praying to God, asking him to help me find love, but afterwards I feel guilty and selfish and ask for forgiveness.
So, will it ever happen!?:(
 
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christiancollegegirl

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#2
Don't worry, it'll happen when it happens. I got my first boyfriend when I was 18.
 
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camogrl4christ

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#3
Don't worry girl, it'll happen most definitely! I'm 16 as well and I just recently had my 1st bf in real life, but it didn't last for too long. Up til then I had only had online relationships. I know how hard it is and I know EXACTLY how you feel. What I recommend is that you go after God with full speed and seek His face! It says in the Bible Matthew 6:13 -But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. God knows your heart's desires, and as you draw closer to Him then He will bless you with everything in life you've ever dreamed of (as long as it's good for you). Hang in there and focus on God and yourself! Take this time also to enjoy being a young, single, teenage girl... just as I'm doing. You'll find that if you don't stress out about finding a guy that you can have fun by yourself, in your relationship with God, and with friends :)
 
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goth4god

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I used to totally feel that way when i was your age.
then when i was 17 God let me have an online relationship with a guy. I think God let me have that relationship just to shut me up! lol. anyways the guy was nice, but after 6 months we both decided it wasnt worth it and broke up.
I'm 19 and i am still waiting, and i realized that dating isnt worth it unless you are ready to marry. cuz i mean when you are young, you get a guy, and then what? sure couples keep dating for years and years and it sometimes works. but most of the time the relationships fade.
so dont worry! God will send you the right guy at the right time! =]
and dont feel guilty! if it makes you feel less guilty, pray for your future husband! pray for God to keep him from harm and keep him pure. I know i pray for my future husband, whomever he may be.