Im angry all the time... it's like I have a red hot splinter constantly in my mind, all I have to make me want to do anything is this anger this hatred about everything and everyone I don't know why at first I thought it was the fact a pretty serious relationship I had with a girl for over a year wen't down in flames but it's not I exacted my vengeance or w/e and it's still there, and I hate it. I hate the fact I hate I hate the fact Im so angry all the time I have no self control anymore I just lash out I can't stop it. I keep hurting people, but I don't care I enjoy it, It makes me feel sick Ive never been exactly "sane" a bit eccentric and stuff but Ive never been violent really... the occasional outburst where Id just lose my mind for a few moments and do somthing insanely moronic but now Its all the time. I can't make it stop... I just want to know if anyones been through this... how did they get through this ? I don't want to be like this I just need someone to tell me how to stop.
Anger issues...
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i cant tell you how to stop, cos hurting people hurt other people, you enjoy it cos you want them to hurt as much as your hurting and notice your hurting ... You have to decide your sick of being sick that you hate it so much, that holding onto the anger hate, birtness unforgivness is so toxic, that its got to go. THat involves alot of forgivness and healing.. Holding onto it only harming you.. i just want you to know God loves you and he accepts you right now just as you are, anger , pain bitterness everything, He knows your pain and your hurt and your anger, your self hatred and he says your my precious child and i love you , let love and forgivness drive you not hatred and anger, because with love and forgivness comes power, to get better not bitter...
For we do not have a spirit of fear but of power, love and selfcontrol...
let these words go in from this hymn they are so precious
Just as I am, without one plea,
but that thy blood was shed for me,
and that thou bidst me come to thee,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, and waiting not
to rid my soul of one dark blot,
to thee whose blood can cleanse each spot,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, though tossed about
with many a conflict, many a doubt,
fightings and fears within, without,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, poor, wretched, blind;
sight, riches, healing of the mind,
yea, all I need in thee to find,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, thou wilt receive,
wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
because thy promise I believe,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, thy love unknown
hath broken every barrier down;
now, to be thine, yea thine alone,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Rember your precious and unique that eccenricity in your personality makes you who you are , Youve taken the first step in getting it to stop by admiting it and writing your feelings down.that took strngth and courage , and with that inside you , you have the capacity to make it stop...
love in christ
princess
For we do not have a spirit of fear but of power, love and selfcontrol...
let these words go in from this hymn they are so precious
Just as I am, without one plea,
but that thy blood was shed for me,
and that thou bidst me come to thee,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, and waiting not
to rid my soul of one dark blot,
to thee whose blood can cleanse each spot,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, though tossed about
with many a conflict, many a doubt,
fightings and fears within, without,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, poor, wretched, blind;
sight, riches, healing of the mind,
yea, all I need in thee to find,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, thou wilt receive,
wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
because thy promise I believe,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Just as I am, thy love unknown
hath broken every barrier down;
now, to be thine, yea thine alone,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Rember your precious and unique that eccenricity in your personality makes you who you are , Youve taken the first step in getting it to stop by admiting it and writing your feelings down.that took strngth and courage , and with that inside you , you have the capacity to make it stop...
love in christ
princess
Dude i feel ya aye. I to had this very problem when i was 13-15 not to long ago. I do think that a lot of my anger came from puberty (lol) but i had an anger that could come out that would be so fierce no1 could be around me else id lash out at them. I was warned that i was going to be sent to a mental institute for scaring my teacher. If i didnt get my way in class at school or the teacher was pissing me off i would kick chairs and throw them luckily i never physically hurt any1 
The way i got through this is due to 1 man at my school. My Chaplain, Forlon if you have a school Chaplain(christian elder type guy) go and talk to him, i found getting the anger out was easier when talking it out to some1 who deals with some1 with my issues everyday. Then i started reading the bible...in the 2 years from me reading my friends were astonished at the changes that were made, i still have them say i remember when you went crazy at this teacher and now youre so calm and woudlnt hurt any1. I myself didnt do anything it was all GOD
Though that being said its still a weakness of myn and i have not perfected my anger issues and i do occasionally get very angry at people when they do piss me off. But its always a work in progress.
Bless ya dude.
The way i got through this is due to 1 man at my school. My Chaplain, Forlon if you have a school Chaplain(christian elder type guy) go and talk to him, i found getting the anger out was easier when talking it out to some1 who deals with some1 with my issues everyday. Then i started reading the bible...in the 2 years from me reading my friends were astonished at the changes that were made, i still have them say i remember when you went crazy at this teacher and now youre so calm and woudlnt hurt any1. I myself didnt do anything it was all GOD
Though that being said its still a weakness of myn and i have not perfected my anger issues and i do occasionally get very angry at people when they do piss me off. But its always a work in progress.
Bless ya dude.