To Cut or Not to Cut

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goth4god

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#21
I wish I was there to hug you in person!
 
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Lillibeth

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#22
okay. i have a question for you, and if you want to reply in my message box, thats fine...but how often do you cut..? I mean, is it an everyday, once a week, or what? Because you seem to realize you have a problem, which is showing that you want help. So i mean, my advice for you is to talk to someone you trust. :) for me, that made all the diff. :)
I haven't cut in a while. I get strong urges though. It uses to be a daily addiction until I met my boyfriend. He really helps me out, but again my mom had to go and wreck that. I'm not allowed to date, and it really sucks... T_T So I don't see him regularly, only when I'm at school, and school's almost over.... I don't know what I'm going to do over the summer. My bf is the only reason that I'm not dead and cold in the ground right now, and now that my mom wants to move away, I don't know how I'll survive... Yeah, I know, it sounds dramatic as heck but I really REALLY don't know. T_T

Sorry if that was too long of a reply. xD
 
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rjb1116

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yeah. that really stinks. but considering your boyfriend knows, that seems to have made it easier on you. Its a lot easier to be able to talk to someone you know and trust...i.e., a boyfriend...and thats awesome that you haven't cut in a while. I know to many reading this that a week of not cutting may not seem like a long time, but for most people who have been cutting for a while, its a milestone. :) I am really proud of you though. You seem to be turning to God, and not to cutting, which is soo hard sometimes, but in the end, its the best thing you can do! :) well if there is a way you can still talk to your bf this summer, that might work too :) because he seems to have been able to help you a lot! :) Well i'll be praying for you, because i know its tough! *hugs* :)
 
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rjb1116

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#24
Not to cut. That was an easy question lol. Why would anyone cut themselves on purpose? Thats hurting Gods temple. Unless it says to cut yourself in the Bible there is no reason to cut.
its an easy question, but until you have been down that road, you have no idea how hard it is to stop, once you have started.
 
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Lillibeth

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#25
y-yeah.... ish hard question. I know it's hurting God's temple... but I'm really sorry if I think it's a hard question...
 
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rjb1116

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#26
Its an easy question, but a hard answer. And don't be sorry. thats your opinion. I mean, everyone will say, if you say, should i cut or not cut, they will say to not cut..well its easy for them to say that, but that answer may be hard for you to comprehend, because I know it is for me, even though I don't struggle with cutting anymore! :) well just let me know if you need to talk! :)
 
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Lillibeth

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#27
^_^ thanks, girl. xo.
 
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Lillibeth

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#28
I cut again. LAst night was so bad. REally. it was bad. and I'm lost now. i feel like I'm going crazy. And it hurts. I can't take it anymore. I'm losing my mind, man. Seriously. I'm losing it.
 
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Lillibeth

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sorry for cussing. i'm just so angry, alright? and getting an infraction only makes it worse,yeah? piles even more junk onto my plate. great. i'm sorry, but i can't really demonstrate how frustrated I am. How upset, angry, hurt.... and now this. Great. I feel so great. Thanks.
 
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Lillibeth

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sorry about that post. I'm just... upset. I really am. I've got a lot on my plate. Finals and then this situation.... my mom's abusive. she beat my brother and chased me into a corner and tried to hit me too. Sorry. I really am. I'm just so... so frustrated.