Okay, what in the world.... *steams*

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Lillibeth

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Alright, so here's my issue. My mom came up to me in the kitchen today when I yelled "Nrrrgh! I'm just so angry!" and then she hugged me. I've wanted that hug for years, and she told me she loved me, which made a K.O..... I should be happy, right?

But I'm not! I'm ticked off, and I feel like it's unreal. I couldn't look her in the eye when she was spilling her guts on the table, I couldn't hug her back, I forced my self to smile at her.... and now I don't know how to deal with her. What the heck is my problem?! I got what I wanted... and now I can't handle it! I'm just getting so ticked off about the way I'm feeling....

*punches hole in the wall* ..... grawr..... *growls* help me out here.... please....
 
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missy2shoes

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hormones :D........
 
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goth4god

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I totally know how you feel!
like my family is ok, not the best tho, we arent open with each other much and my mom and dad dont say 'I love you'. but recently my dad has started saying it and I feel like its fake but I cant see his heart so idk, and it totally throws me off. and somewhere in the back of my mind im thinking 'its kinda late. I'm all grown up and now you start being the dad I wanted. thanks'
it just totally throws you all off and you dont know what to do.
for me I just say I love him back and I know in his heart he means it cuz hes my dad, and I guess since im older he cant control me and wants me to know. if that makes sense 0_o
 
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Lillibeth

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*starts to patch up wall* yeah, that's how I feel. "I'm all grown up now, it's kind of late."
 
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BeauBLESSED

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An interesting happenings, but nonetheless another kind of thing that just happens.
If, from what I'm guessing, you and your mum have been having trouble getting long over the past years, then maybe your reaction was an awkward one because you weren't expecting her to hug you and tell you how she feels.
But! If you and your mum have a strong bond between you, then perhaps you were so clouded by your anger that you couldn't think straight, and reacted to her affection in a way that you don't think was the right way to react.

However confoosing this may have been for you to read, I'd love to further discuss this matter if you would like to. Just message me. =]
 
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