Not true. Actually, pre-marital sex has nothing to do with divorce. Affairs do. And affairs often happen when the religion of the cheater forbids divorce. So they sneak behind the back of their husband or wife and have sex with random people b/c they don't want to be publicly "sinning" for social status reasons.
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Being still a virgin to me and quietly proud about it. To me it means not having several horrible things happen in your life. Not having to worry that you made some chick pregnant, not having to worry that either party falls in love with each other(outside of marriage). Not destroying your life and the person you had sex with. *it will always come back to bite you in the tail, no1 ive met has said that having mulitiple sexual partners has made his life better (christian or non christian)*For me the main 1 would be the guilt that you didnt keep yourself pure for your wife the way God wanted you to do so. That being said its not just having sex its about anything that makes you sexually impure.
God made sex for marriage, do what God wants.
“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality” (1 Thess. 4:3).
God made sex for marriage, do what God wants.
“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality” (1 Thess. 4:3).
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i dont know about over there but over here its like a normal thing to sinful people. i live in america one of the most sinful places in the world. i know a bunch of kids that lost their virginity at the age of 10 atleast.i almost lost my virginity but Jesus is so good that he came in the right time! To me virginity means something that only my ''wife'' would deserve.
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I've done drugs. I've drank. I've cussed. I've lied. I've done so many things to wrong people and myself. But my virginity is the ONE thing I'm pleased about. Glory to God.
All these years, no one has really told me that I should have sex because it was the normal thing to do. I've always just had that thought that it should be with someone special. Now, when it came to the drugs and alcohol... I made that mistake.
*shrugs*
If I'm a loser to the world's standards, then that's okay.
All these years, no one has really told me that I should have sex because it was the normal thing to do. I've always just had that thought that it should be with someone special. Now, when it came to the drugs and alcohol... I made that mistake.
*shrugs*
If I'm a loser to the world's standards, then that's okay.
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To me...I don't really think about it like some special thing. More a neutral fact. I'm 25, and a virgin still. That is not something I would ever brag about, and something I would only be willing to anonymously admit on a forum like this, where it's more accepted to be a young adult virgin.
I feel too young at heart to form a solid opinion about it, because it's not something I think about all the time. But I've always had a strong moral conscience, and I'm very emotional. Even if I wanted to have premarital sex, I think part of me wouldn't ever let myself. Even if I wasn't a Christian. It's just a weird quirk of mine...I want to keep myself to myself until I'm really sure.
I've been in a (long distance) relationship with the same guy for nearly 4 years, and I still have no that that really sure feeling. There were many opportunities for me to lose my virginity, and I have a normal sex drive, and we're both in love, but the timing just doesn't seem right until I know in both my heart AND mind that I'll be with him forever.
I feel too young at heart to form a solid opinion about it, because it's not something I think about all the time. But I've always had a strong moral conscience, and I'm very emotional. Even if I wanted to have premarital sex, I think part of me wouldn't ever let myself. Even if I wasn't a Christian. It's just a weird quirk of mine...I want to keep myself to myself until I'm really sure.
I've been in a (long distance) relationship with the same guy for nearly 4 years, and I still have no that that really sure feeling. There were many opportunities for me to lose my virginity, and I have a normal sex drive, and we're both in love, but the timing just doesn't seem right until I know in both my heart AND mind that I'll be with him forever.
I think that that is a very simple way of saying it.
Earlier it was a big social stigma to get divorced (and the women had no say in it) so you where sort of stuck in it.
With more freedom people will make decisions based upon that. That might lead to divorce. And that might be a shame. But it is better to be divorced than stuck in a destructive relationship.
Earlier it was a big social stigma to get divorced (and the women had no say in it) so you where sort of stuck in it.
With more freedom people will make decisions based upon that. That might lead to divorce. And that might be a shame. But it is better to be divorced than stuck in a destructive relationship.