Worrying about Athiest Friends

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jonnoboy

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yes i think i do hahaa
 
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rainacorn

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Surely you see how all other explanations are even more lacking in evidence than the God theory, yes?

THE UNIVERSE OPERATES PERFECTLY WELL WITHOUT A GOD. the advances of science over the years has pushed the need for God's guiding intervention into nothing.. there is literally no room for God anymore from an explanatory perspective. The way you've phrased your above question is making the presumption that there is a God and atheists are being rather awkward and trying to prove that there isn't. Since birth i've viewed the world on the pretext that there ISN'T a God... so surely it would be for believers to offer me the evidence rather than my job to go around refuting all the claims. The burden of proof does NOT lie with me.
It does if you're making the positive assertion that there is no God...which is what you're doing. If you say you have seen no evidence or say honestly that you cannot prove it one way or the other (taking the agnostic position) then you're in the spot that you think you're in. However, if you claim with certainty that there is no God (or claim with certainty that there is) then yes, the burden of proof is on the person making that claim.

so to return to your question, yes. Therefore ALL other arguments for me must have more evidence than the 'God explanation'. These 'other' explanation are not wacky conspiracy theories or tentative ideas... they are science, and answered obtained through observing the world around us in a clear and hopefully rational way.
Who observed the big bang and all of human evolution? Exactly nobody. They are theories where the proof is in the reasoned explanation. Does the explanation make sense? Yes or no?

If yes, then great. It's not proof, but it's a reasonable assumption based on other reasonable assumptions, building upon other reasonable assumptions and perhaps even some known elements.

If no, then why doesn't it make sense? What are the explanations missing and what are the alternatives? Do the alternative explanations make sense? Yes or no?

You see where I'm going. Someone can say, "I know in my heart there is a God." Or they can say, "I know in my heart that human beings came to be exclusively through random chance and the evolutionary process."

Neither has proof, but both have reasonable assumptions.

what is stopping you? You (yes, you, personally)
i don't (deep down inside) secretly believe there is a God. I'm not in self denial. I'm not resisting any truths. I openly and honestly confess that i see no reason to believe in God. You can't judge or criticize me for that... because... well... i can't help it can i?
No criticism here, just putting you through the peer-review process, so to speak. If your methodology is sound then there is nothing to criticize.
 
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LukeF

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It does if you're making the positive assertion that there is no God...which is what you're doing. If you say you have seen no evidence or say honestly that you cannot prove it one way or the other (taking the agnostic position) then you're in the spot that you think you're in. However, if you claim with certainty that there is no God (or claim with certainty that there is) then yes, the burden of proof is on the person making that claim.

True. and that's why i'd happily admit there is a God if i had proof... however i'm at a loss as to what form this would come in... so for the sake of argument i say that there isn't a God... in actuality i'm agnostic but 99.9999...% atheist... etc

Who observed the big bang and all of human evolution? Exactly nobody. They are theories where the proof is in the reasoned explanation. Does the explanation make sense? Yes or no?

THere is observable evidence for both of those two examples.. Big Bang.. look through a telescope and see the universe expand from a central point...

evolution has a ridiculous amount of evidence.. in our lifetimes we observe animals adapt and diversify... all the many pure-bred species of dogs for example..

Christianity is a FAITH. and should be regarded as such... it is a leap of FAITH to believe in God.. put your trust in God etc....

and yes i see the systematic point you're making... which is great... and like i said before probably done with all the best intentions from saving me from hell fire and so on... i'm not ignorant to the teachings of the Bible or anything.. this isn't new stuff to me... i've been to a multitude of different churches many times... i've seriously considered the 'God Question'.. but i don't credit God as an 'explanation'... it's simply too overwhelmed in the face of science..
 
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Kyouken

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It does if you're making the positive assertion that there is no God...which is what you're doing. If you say you have seen no evidence or say honestly that you cannot prove it one way or the other (taking the agnostic position) then you're in the spot that you think you're in. However, if you claim with certainty that there is no God (or claim with certainty that there is) then yes, the burden of proof is on the person making that claim.

True. and that's why i'd happily admit there is a God if i had proof... however i'm at a loss as to what form this would come in... so for the sake of argument i say that there isn't a God... in actuality i'm agnostic but 99.9999...% atheist... etc

Who observed the big bang and all of human evolution? Exactly nobody. They are theories where the proof is in the reasoned explanation. Does the explanation make sense? Yes or no?

THere is observable evidence for both of those two examples.. Big Bang.. look through a telescope and see the universe expand from a central point...

evolution has a ridiculous amount of evidence.. in our lifetimes we observe animals adapt and diversify... all the many pure-bred species of dogs for example..

Christianity is a FAITH. and should be regarded as such... it is a leap of FAITH to believe in God.. put your trust in God etc....

and yes i see the systematic point you're making... which is great... and like i said before probably done with all the best intentions from saving me from hell fire and so on... i'm not ignorant to the teachings of the Bible or anything.. this isn't new stuff to me... i've been to a multitude of different churches many times... i've seriously considered the 'God Question'.. but i don't credit God as an 'explanation'... it's simply too overwhelmed in the face of science..
Try talking to a creationism (creationist?) evangelist. I'd argue some points one would make but am not one. I'm not too good with logic, but I think it's fantastic logic.
 
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PopClick

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First off, Luke, welcome to the site. :)

and yeah i can imagine lots of atheists would love to come on these internet sites just to 'have a go'... not good
And, I ask you this question without a hint of accusatory, argumentative, judgmental overtones. Just simple curiosity.

Why are you here?
 
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rainacorn

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It does if you're making the positive assertion that there is no God...which is what you're doing. If you say you have seen no evidence or say honestly that you cannot prove it one way or the other (taking the agnostic position) then you're in the spot that you think you're in. However, if you claim with certainty that there is no God (or claim with certainty that there is) then yes, the burden of proof is on the person making that claim.

True. and that's why i'd happily admit there is a God if i had proof... however i'm at a loss as to what form this would come in... so for the sake of argument i say that there isn't a God... in actuality i'm agnostic but 99.9999...% atheist... etc

Who observed the big bang and all of human evolution? Exactly nobody. They are theories where the proof is in the reasoned explanation. Does the explanation make sense? Yes or no?

THere is observable evidence for both of those two examples.. Big Bang.. look through a telescope and see the universe expand from a central point...

evolution has a ridiculous amount of evidence.. in our lifetimes we observe animals adapt and diversify... all the many pure-bred species of dogs for example..

Christianity is a FAITH. and should be regarded as such... it is a leap of FAITH to believe in God.. put your trust in God etc....

and yes i see the systematic point you're making... which is great... and like i said before probably done with all the best intentions from saving me from hell fire and so on... i'm not ignorant to the teachings of the Bible or anything.. this isn't new stuff to me... i've been to a multitude of different churches many times... i've seriously considered the 'God Question'.. but i don't credit God as an 'explanation'... it's simply too overwhelmed in the face of science..
It is a leap of faith to take the evidence that evolutionary scientists have put forward and proclaim with certainty that no God was involved in the process. It is odd to think that the two things are directly related at all, either as proof of an intelligent creator God or proof against there being a God at all. That's not what scientists are setting out to prove and it's not like they 'accidentally' proved it in the process.

To be honest with you, I haven't taken a special interest in your soul. I just personally think that if we are going to claim to be rational, reasoned people who require conclusive evidence before establishing beliefs about things, then we should actually be those people. Your decision to deny a deity is not really so different than my decision to believe in one, from a brain function stand point. They were choices we made based on the limited evidence available, run through a filter of 'what we would like to believe.' We are both guilty of narrative fallacies, but just because there are logical holes and unknowns doesn't mean the beliefs lack merit.

If you choose not to believe in God, then that is entirely your decision. But please don't pretend it is because you have some kind of superior intelligence. That sort of arrogance could prevent you from gleaning anything worthwhile and actually applicable to your life while you spend time exploring religious forums. The Bible speaks to everyone because it is for humans and about humans. Even if you don't believe there is a God, many of the truths contained within the Bible are totally undeniable and they echo out across time for that very reason. You do not have to be a member of any club to read it and get something out of it, and you should give credit to people who live their lives by it.

Just my two cents.
 
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chrismahaffey

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How can you get selfish out of atheist based phelosophies? most of the ''atheist'' phelosophies are'nt intended to dis proove a god at all. one of the most famous arguments between atheists and religious is that ''atheists cant prove that there IS"NT a god'' and that atheists cant tell you how we all got here in the first place'' im talking about day one of chorse, or the big bang theory...well first things first, you can't PROVE that somthing DOSN'T EXIST, you can only try to prove that somthing "DOSE" exist and come up with an answer from there. therefour, if you want to have a hypothesis chalenged, you have to come out with some ammo of your own, downt just put a story out of you but, or from an achent book of fary tails. therfour it crazy someone pushing their own argument about their OWN god and trying to tell us to prove to them that god dosnt exit, in turn they should be trying to prove to atheists that god DOSE exisit...i think during the period of our evolution when we were capable to think deep enuff into our own spirituality, we had the very strong reolisation the one day every human, pant, and animan is going to die, and as always the human mind will try to grasp this and many other scary thoughts with faulse assuptions that maby thier is an after life to cope with the one curse every human has, and that the fact we know we are going to die....well kids,,, that my thought on how every god and after life based religioun wes created...any questions?
 
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rainacorn

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First, read the whole thread before you post.

Secondly, spell check is your friend. If you're trying to write intelligent posts, doing so in an intelligent way will help get your point across. Nobody reads a block of text full of misspellings.
 
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Personally, I think being agnostic is the only real way to go.
It is certainly the most humble position, Saul. And if the Bible teaches anything of worth, it teaches humility.
 
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Beyondb

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If this friend of yours is a committed atheist then theirs really not much you can do other than try and prove creationism to her / him. Also a debate about morality could prove fruitful, you could prove that atheists have no morality while Christians do. You should talk to her about things of this life and not of the other life because she does not have the eyes open yet.
I'm not entirely sure what creationism you are talking about could you expand on that?



The question about morality is a widely debated topic, could you expand on what you'd think would be for christianity? Or maybe points that would be against, up to you.
 
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Beyondb

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the universe indeed looks 'designed'
It is argued that what you say isn't true at all

Surely you see how all other explanations are even more lacking in evidence than the God theory, yes?
"Nothing" is unstable.
The laws of quantum mechanics and combined with gravity will tell you if you have empty space and you wait long enough, particles will be created and if you wait long enough empty space will allways produce a universe full of matter.
 
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I think if I were an Atheist I would be really offended. Even Stephen Hawking, the guy who said heaven was a fairy tale made up for people afraid of the dark, strongly promotes a strong code of morality.

Anyway, not trying to interrupt, that one just caught my eye.
 
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mori

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I think if I were an Atheist I would be really offended.
Alternatively, heh, a little bemused that such a tired, weak argument was repeated so casually. It's wrong, and obviously wrong, on a couple of counts.

First, there are a number of religions in which there are no gods in the Christian sense. For example, Buddhists do not believe that the mechanics of karma were created by any being. In fact, any gods in Buddhist thought are subject to the workings of karma and can be cast down to lesser states if they don't adhere to them carefully enough. Buddhists, who are to varying degrees atheists, nevertheless manage to usually behave.

Second, we can observe that many atheists are no different in the practice of ethics than those who believe in a god. We can of course point out baddies on either side of the debate, but this is not the point I'm trying to make. If a single atheist's actions are not discernibly different from a theist's, then we must conclude there are other ways to come up with a functional moral code.

In fact, I think it's worthwhile to look at the claim that the average theist derived his moral code directly from a deity. I submit that, even if the Christian God had handed down an unambiguous list of do's and do not's, it's clear that not all eventualities were discussed in revelation. Throughout history, Christians have had to wrestle with their decisions precisely because they don't know exactly what God wants in that case. They've had to use the same tools everyone else has (unless they've received private revelation).

Finally, arguing that the Christian morality is objective because it came directly from God seems to ignore the Christian understanding of human nature. Even if a complete and perfect morality had been perfectly revealed, what makes them think they've understood it perfectly? Seems to assume a certain level of objectivity on the part of the person that isn't at all evident.
 
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Alternatively, heh, a little bemused that such a tired, weak argument was repeated so casually. It's wrong, and obviously wrong, on a couple of counts.

First, there are a number of religions in which there are no gods in the Christian sense. For example, Buddhists do not believe that the mechanics of karma were created by any being. In fact, any gods in Buddhist thought are subject to the workings of karma and can be cast down to lesser states if they don't adhere to them carefully enough. Buddhists, who are to varying degrees atheists, nevertheless manage to usually behave.

Second, we can observe that many atheists are no different in the practice of ethics than those who believe in a god. We can of course point out baddies on either side of the debate, but this is not the point I'm trying to make. If a single atheist's actions are not discernibly different from a theist's, then we must conclude there are other ways to come up with a functional moral code.

In fact, I think it's worthwhile to look at the claim that the average theist derived his moral code directly from a deity. I submit that, even if the Christian God had handed down an unambiguous list of do's and do not's, it's clear that not all eventualities were discussed in revelation. Throughout history, Christians have had to wrestle with their decisions precisely because they don't know exactly what God wants in that case. They've had to use the same tools everyone else has (unless they've received private revelation).

Finally, arguing that the Christian morality is objective because it came directly from God seems to ignore the Christian understanding of human nature. Even if a complete and perfect morality had been perfectly revealed, what makes them think they've understood it perfectly? Seems to assume a certain level of objectivity on the part of the person that isn't at all evident.
Exactly. Furthermore, if one still wishes that atheists don't have an objective morality because they don't believe in any religious doctrines or deities, is it not the theist that lacks morality. Think about it. If you are arguing that the only reason you are good is because your deity has provided you with a code of morality, are you not confusing morality with obedience and submission to power? If an atheist were to provide food for a homeless man, he would not be doing it to follow a code, or to impress a deity, or because a fear of hell; a truly moral act, as he or she expects absolutely nothing in return. If a theist were to do the same act of kindness, it would be either1) your deity/ religious doctrine told you to do it. 2) you want to increase your chances of being prosperous in the afterlife, both of which are either selfish by nature or are resulted from strict obedience to power.

Obedience to power is not morality and vice versa.
 
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Exactly. Furthermore, if one still wishes that atheists don't have an objective morality because they don't believe in any religious doctrines or deities, is it not the theist that lacks morality. Think about it. If you are arguing that the only reason you are good is because your deity has provided you with a code of morality, are you not confusing morality with obedience and submission to power? If an atheist were to provide food for a homeless man, he would not be doing it to follow a code, or to impress a deity, or because a fear of hell; a truly moral act, as he or she expects absolutely nothing in return. If a theist were to do the same act of kindness, it would be either1) your deity/ religious doctrine told you to do it. 2) you want to increase your chances of being prosperous in the afterlife, both of which are either selfish by nature or are resulted from strict obedience to power.

Obedience to power is not morality and vice versa.
Those are some very good points.
 
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kewl42

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i don't mean any agressivity in the following message: if murderers can get into eaven by repenting, can't athiests? there's nothing wrong with not believing in god, i'm not even sure i do. you can't curse others for thinking differntly than you. i choose to believe in existentialism, and that's my choice. no one has the right to condemn me for it. and you don't have the right to say atheism and/or existentialism is wrong. it's not wrong, it's just different. as i said, people can choose to believe what they want to beileve, if that makes them happy. ain't no one got the right to tell others what to believe, how to think, and what to feel, or call their beliefs wrong, or use profane language to describe their beliefs. islamic extremists kill others for not believing in what they believe. and that's horribly wrong, as it is wrong that you come out and condemn existentialism (and any other beliefs you may, or may not have said are wrong) i'm not saying your a bad person (and i'm certainly not comparing you to terrorists!), for i know your concern comes from a deep and caring place, otherwise, you wouldn't have it. all i'm saying is that you have to keep an open mind, see things from all persepectives. and don't be so quick to judge. "the kingdom of god it within man, not one man, nor a group of men, but all men". if that is so, shouldn't everyone be accepted by god? if god is within everyone?