A friend in DANGER!!!

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CryingRose94

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My best friend named Marina has this friend named Evan, who likes her, she told him she was only interested in being friends with him...now my best friend is super sweet and absolutly beautiful, so alot of guys liuke her alot!!!! But one thing about this evan guy even though she told him that, he has a habit of trying to touch her and all, he is always complimenting her looks and personality...and than he will make jokes about raping her....which in my mind means he has probably thought about doing so, if she upsets him to much I am afraid he will hurt her, he is not a Christain, and even if she does not upset him I'm afraid he might try to hurt her, I do not know what to tell her!!!! I'm scared, I mean this guy has known her for 2 months and is doing all that....ugh I'm so upset right now and have no clue what to do or say to protect my friend from harm. What should I do?
 
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dishchat

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CryingRose94 said:
My best friend named Marina has this friend named Evan, who likes her, she told him she was only interested in being friends with him...now my best friend is super sweet and absolutly beautiful, so alot of guys liuke her alot!!!! But one thing about this evan guy even though she told him that, he has a habit of trying to touch her and all, he is always complimenting her looks and personality...and than he will make jokes about raping her....which in my mind means he has probably thought about doing so, if she upsets him to much I am afraid he will hurt her, he is not a Christain, and even if she does not upset him I'm afraid he might try to hurt her, I do not know what to tell her!!!! I'm scared, I mean this guy has known her for 2 months and is doing all that....ugh I'm so upset right now and have no clue what to do or say to protect my friend from harm. What should I do?
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If Marina love Evans, then you can't do anything.I don't know if she is a christian But if so, please go ahead,and pray for her. Prayer changes every circomstances. Then you should tell her parents about that otherwise that story may badly finished.I don't think that this guy love her because he is trying to have sex with her.If he realy love her, he would be meek to her.If the guy show violence, then counsel her to go contact the police force.
2 corinthians ch 6 vs 14 tell clearly to not be unequally yoked together with unbeleivers. [if she is christian]
God bless you
 
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CryingRose94

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She is a Christian and she has NO interest in him in that way, she does not like him at all like that, and she has told him several times to leave her alone about that because she ONLY wants him as a friend not as a boyfriend. But he will not listen to her when she says that.
 
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Tobby17

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Tell her what you think, WARN HER about your suspecting him of maybe wanting to rape her.. Also pray for her.. I think that much you can do..
 
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CryingRose94

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Yeah! I did, I really hope she listens to me, I love her to death, she is like my sister and I do not want anyone to ever hurt her
 
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Ugly

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Man, this is to typical of women that i see. No matter how bad a situation, or person shows to be they always give the whole 'but i still want to be friends' line. She needs to stop being so worried about keeping his friendship and recognize the danger she could potentially be in. She needs to make it clear she wants NOTHING to do with this guy.
I've seen so many women put themselves in danger in the name of 'staying friends'.
 
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CryingRose94

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But if she completly shuts him out like that do you think it might set him off and he might hurt her as welll?
 
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FireBug

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Have you, or her, told her parents?
If not, DO! When a parent knows, they'll more than likely do what they can to keep her safe. :)
You can do your part too. Keep her close. :) In heart, prayer, and anything else you can think of.
And yes... she should completely avoid him.
 
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CryingRose94 said:
But if she completly shuts him out like that do you think it might set him off and he might hurt her as welll?
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Maybe, but keeping as a friend isn't going to stop him from hurting her either way, believe me keeping him close will actually be worse. Pray that he doesn't come near... You have already been given good advice. God bless
 
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Fishbone

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you said ...But if she completly shuts him out like that do you think it might set him off and he might hurt her as welll?... well, guess what... SHE IS IN DANGER RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!

i LIFT HER UP TO THE LlORD....Lord, protect her... keep her safe from all evil.... keep this person away from her, keep your angels around her, let no evil touch her...in Jesus name. amen,
I will continue to lift her up every time I think of her
 
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Ugly

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CryingRose94 said:
But if she completly shuts him out like that do you think it might set him off and he might hurt her as welll?
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Well, she can shut him out now, and have less of a chance he will hurt her, or keep encouraging him by keeping him as part of her life and increasing the chances of his becoming violent because he has more time to obsess over her and allow this 'friendship' to cloud his understanding. At least if she boots him out now she has a chance of it sinking in and moving on.
 
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