what skills or interest do you have?
I don't think working in Starbucks for the rest of your life sounds appealing either, at least it doesn't to me but hey if it makes you happy, someone has to do it....
Personally I was going to say, ditch the girlfriend, focus on school/ college and saving up money for your wife and future family instead of spending it on endless dates. Money and things won't make her happy, they are just temporary fills. (then I deleted it because i thought it might sound too mean or self righteous or something... i was having a rough day and I don't think I worded it diplomatically)
I think we should all first seek the Kingdom of God and all else will be added to you.
What do you think God would like for you to do with your life?
what Skills has God given you that others appreciate enough to pay you to do?
so in turn you can buy food, save for a house, etc.
Matthew 6
25 “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?
28 “So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; 29 and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?
31 “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
When it says "seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness" it doesn't mean be a lazy bum and do nothing, but in prayer ask God what His will is and strive to do good in the world so that He might be glorified by your good works. Find ways to allow His light to shine in you, ways you can show love and care and concern about Heavenly things such as compassion, love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, self control. Seek to understand His Word and His will and allowing the Holy Spirit to conform your heart to His.
[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plFHiSWeOHI[/video]