Is this his way of saying he likes me?! Or the opposite...

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DreamGirl19

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There's this Guy I like, and for some reason we crossed eachother's path a lot: But We didn't say one word to eachother: No Hi, nothing: When I first came, he was there, and he was talking to this Guy, and he didn't even look at me or say Hi: Last time when I came, he was talking to his guy friend, and when I appeared he looked at me, and said Hi: This time it was different; So I just went downstairs: A few hours later, I had coffee in my hand, and I saw him walking towards me: He had his eyes down, but I just walked past him, and sat in a chair without saying anything: And at lunch: He appeared again: And he sat by himself at the table: I looked at him: When I looked at his table again, he was gone :0 I thought he left, but when I looked around, he was right in front of me!! He must of walked behind me AGAIN cause I didn't notice him walking in front of me: When I saw him he did glance at me :0 But I was shy: When He came in front of me, I just looked down, and ate my rice: I saw my friend leaving the table, and I staring at her to see if she was going back to the main hall to chill, and I was going to join her, and when I turned my eyes, He was standing far away staring at me :0 So... Can someone explain this situation: And does he like me? Did he wanted me to say something to him?
 
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Ugly

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#2
No ones going to be able to answer this for sure. Rather than asking strangers to speculate on a few glances, why not just walk up and say hi next time you see him and skip all this feeble attempt at mind reading and skip the guessing games.
 
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Random_Facts

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#3
In my personal opinion, if he said "hi" to you, you should at least say "hey" back. That way he at least knows you have noticed him in the first place. I know being shy can get to people, I'm quite shy myself. But at least saying the simple hey goes further than most think. =). Of course it's hard to say what that truly means from just reading a few lines. But just remember to believe in yourself, say things like I know I can, rather than think I can. Take the first step and say hey, how's it going? (Now I know most women say they want the guys to do the first step, if you're being old fashion). But you have to remember he did say hey, and if you said nothing. Who knows what he thought that was. Just be brave, you'll be alright. I wish you the best of luck! =).
 

Lucy68

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Sounds like a lot of eye signals going on :)

Yes, he wants to talk to you...otherwise he would avoid eye contact.

If he's shy, you may have to strike up a conversation first.

Goodluck!
 
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MariusAlexander

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#5
go talk to him, dont give your brain time to think of reasons not to do it, JUST GO FOR IT :D
 
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Sounds like a pretty creepy dude to me. Yea, he probably likes you, but in a stalker kind of way.