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Jesus is the God of love!


(and many times the ones that scorn you are christians that just don't know jesus and have forgotten that they should not judge).


Take care
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that is all i could agree with
 
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#43
Yes... Prayer is a good answer... Let Jesus guide you...

And if you feel that girls are your thing.... Jesus will love you non the less.

Love
/Anna
i used to love shemale porn as much as the next guy but that is a false teaching!!!! to tell one it is ok to practice lawlessness i pray you read your bible.

seek God from the time you wake up (other than school/work) to the time you go to bed and you will find Him.
 

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i used to love shemale porn as much as the next
ROFL - that was not a comment that I thought I would find on a christian forum.

seek God from the time you wake up (other than school/work) to the time you go to bed and you will find Him.
Yes I do... And I love when I feel the warmth of Jesus and feel him to be close to my heart. And all that love... it is universal. Jesus looks at your heart... if you are a good person. Not if you like shemale porn or not.
 
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#45
You should not compare everyone in the world with yourself and your experiences since we all are different. And that goes for your relationship with God.

I say it again... they are a lot of gay christians out there and Jesus have helped them and changed them but not made them straight since Jesus loves them anyway.
seek Him from the time you wake up till you go to bed and He will change anything that is not of Him. that is the true answer

as a person who used to dig ditches in myself with a blade, used any drug set before me, slept with over 40 chicks, dreamed of torturing people every second of my day, multiple felon, child psych patient when i was 11, and basically bisexual.

what you teach is that someone can willingly do things that we are told not to and enter into heaven.
do you think a person can go molest kids everyday of there life and claim the name of Jesus and enter heaven???? one can beat down his wife every single day and claim the name of our Lord and enter into His kingdom????
 

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as a person who used to dig ditches in myself with a blade, used any drug set before me, slept with over 40 chicks, dreamed of torturing people every second of my day, multiple felon, child psych patient when i was 11, and basically bisexual.
I am so glad that Jesus helped you with this. That he gave you strength enough to leave this destructive behavior behind. I also had a short period when I did hurt myself and was filled with self hatred and depression. But just as what happened to you I prayed to Jesus and he gave me strength to overcome this and leave it behind me... even if it sometimes come back and haunt me and then I will have to pray extra hard.

But... and this is still a big but. In all the things you described I cannot see why the fact that you are/where bisexual had anything to do with your destructive behavior? The problem was that you slept around, did drugs and hurt yourself. Not that you where attracted to both genders.

what you teach is that someone can willingly do things that we are told not to and enter into heaven.
do you think a person can go molest kids everyday of there life and claim the name of Jesus and enter heaven???? one can beat down his wife every single day and claim the name of our Lord and enter into His kingdom????
You can't compare molesting a child with bisexuality that is between consenting adults.

Abusing a child is a vile, vile thing. It is just like rape and other cruel things you can do to a person! That will change that innocent soul for life. :(

When it comes to a husband beating his wife - well according to the bible he has the right to do so. But I do not think that Jesus would judge him lightly. As do I not think that Jesus would look well up on slavery, stoning and things like that. Even if it is "allowed" if you read the bible with those glasses.
 
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I am so glad that Jesus helped you with this. That he gave you strength enough to leave this destructive behavior behind. I also had a short period when I did hurt myself and was filled with self hatred and depression. But just as what happened to you I prayed to Jesus and he gave me strength to overcome this and leave it behind me... even if it sometimes come back and haunt me and then I will have to pray extra hard.

But... and this is still a big but. In all the things you described I cannot see why the fact that you are/where bisexual had anything to do with your destructive behavior? The problem was that you slept around, did drugs and hurt yourself. Not that you where attracted to both genders.



You can't compare molesting a child with bisexuality that is between consenting adults.

Abusing a child is a vile, vile thing. It is just like rape and other cruel things you can do to a person! That will change that innocent soul for life. :(

When it comes to a husband beating his wife - well according to the bible he has the right to do so. But I do not think that Jesus would judge him lightly. As do I not think that Jesus would look well up on slavery, stoning and things like that. Even if it is "allowed" if you read the bible with those glasses.
I'm glad to hear it was only a short period for you, and yes i do agree a child and consenting adults are not the same.

but if two people want to consent to be swingers and willingly join gangbangs and seek it willingly untill they die that is ok?
 
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also what about porn?
 

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but if two people want to consent to be swingers and willingly join gangbangs and seek it willingly untill they die that is ok?
Well, I would advice them to be careful, but sure... If that is what they like I will not judge them for that.
 

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also what about porn?
I think that porn is a tricky question.

I am totally for that porn should be free, but I don't like the way the industry works. A lot of people (mostly girls) get into porn and get involved in a lot of trouble with drugs, abuse and things like that. And if that was not enough they are looked on as cheep and trashy by the rest so they have really noway to turn but to the industry.

Now... I do not thing that all of the industry is like that. But since it is in the outskirts of society (sort of) it seems to be a lot of shady business. Also... there are lots of porn. Everything from amateurs doing their thing to cartoon porn and more soft erotica.

So... I would not want to ban it... But I do not like how (most of it) is run.

But perhaps you asked me if I think it is a sin (and I start babbling in about other things)... Well just like masturbation I think it is a sin if you let it dominate your life. Otherwise.... no... it is nothing sinful when it comes to watch porn.
 
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well i am happy to know that :) i shall stick to reading my bible and seek God as much as i can every day, it keeps my from following the ways of this world....that is when i dont slip up every now and then. but i pray for you and wish you well in all things:)
 
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so i can still have tranny porn all i want??? :)
 

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well i am happy to know that :) i shall stick to reading my bible and seek God as much as i can every day, it keeps my from following the ways of this world....that is when i dont slip up every now and then. but i pray for you and wish you well in all things:)
Yes... to seek God is of utmost importance.

And you should follow the path that keeps you from slipping. The path directly into the arms of Jesus.

Thank you for your warm and kind way of conversation and I wish you all the best as well and will pray for you :)

Love
Anna
 
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so i can still have tranny porn all i want??? :)
That's a choice you'd make. Would it benefit you any? I don't think it would. Well.. it would hypothetically speaking, but those short moments always leave you as empty as you were, if not worse, even more empty.

lolololol :D
 

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so i can still have tranny porn all i want??? :)
LOL... Sure... go ahead... just don't let it take over your life.
It is like a glass of wine... if you need to drink it every day you should know that you are in trouble and that it is not for you.

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but those short moments always leave you as empty as you were, if not worse, even more empty.
LOL I thought that for guys one of the reasons to watch porn was to "empty" ;) *drum roll*

Ehum... Sorry... my humor is bad... I know...
 
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i tend to slip when it comes to being kind, that is a big thing i need to work on most. but i hope you always stick with our Lord He is worth fighting for.

now i am off to sleep!! i hope...... insomnia is another issue i have to fight :)
 
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That's a choice you'd make. Would it benefit you any? I don't think it would. Well.. it would hypothetically speaking, but those short moments always leave you as empty as you were, if not worse, even more empty.

lolololol :D
lol true true but i am sure you know what i was looking for when i ask such things.


you are a smart kid, keep it up and you will be just fine.... you are in better shape than i was at your age:)
 

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i tend to slip when it comes to being kind, that is a big thing i need to work on most. but i hope you always stick with our Lord He is worth fighting for.

now i am off to sleep!! i hope...... insomnia is another issue i have to fight :)
I also have problem with Insomnia...

Nattmara is Swedish for Nightmare... just so you know.

But sleep well!
 
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I also have problem with Insomnia...

Nattmara is Swedish for Nightmare... just so you know.

But sleep well!

thank you and God bless you, i hope to see you around more :)