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I met my boyfriend last year on youtube. He was 30 back then and I was 17 still a minor. We started talking and talking and then became best friends and after 2 weeks he admitted his feelings for me, and soon we were lovers and I called him my boyfriend.
I told my friends about it, and they told me to stay away because I can't trust guys online, and there are cheaters out there.
I didn't want to listen and kept talking and talking and talking untill I became obsessed with this guy and was madly crazy in love with him.
It even became so worse that we I would stay up till morning to talk to him, and make myself exhausted and cry myself to sleep.
We talk about everything, about my life, his life and what's going on right now. However even back then I had trouble trusting him, I thought he cheated on me and wasn't the guy on the picture.
I even found out he send other girls messages too, lying about his age, and asked him about it he told me his friends send those messages and he would never cheat on me, I still can't believe that untill this day.
He saw my picture and told me I'm not his type (while others tell me I'm pretty and look cute) he told me he looks so handsome and can get any woman he wants but that he chooses to love me, cuz of that I feel ugly and not good enough for him... he says love is all about the inside.. I disagree with that because when you're in love you find that person the most beautiful person outside too right? if not I would think you would lust over others.
I walked away so many times.. but we always came back to each other and never stopped loving each other.
Last month I deleted him again and blocked him for 4 weeks, cuz I didn't trust him anymore and I was tired of our love and how obsessed we were with each other that it even made my relationship with God less and distant.
Yesterday I had a break down...I missed him so much that I emailed him again and guess what? he was still there waiting for me to come back to him and talk to him again.. he just forgave me and told me he wants to come to my country to marry me and never be apart again.
I'm still confused and have doubts about him.. I mean I hear so many crazy stories of crazy guys on the internet who make girls love them and then meet them and let those females work in the sex industry etc.
I also faked my voice to him to sound better and not so boring.. I feel like I faked myself to him.. but I deeply care about him and don't want to hurt him again.
I feel so bad I feel like dying and I know I have to stop this relationship but I don't know how.. I fell back so many times
There's just too much doubt here.
What shall I do?.
I told my friends about it, and they told me to stay away because I can't trust guys online, and there are cheaters out there.
I didn't want to listen and kept talking and talking and talking untill I became obsessed with this guy and was madly crazy in love with him.
It even became so worse that we I would stay up till morning to talk to him, and make myself exhausted and cry myself to sleep.
We talk about everything, about my life, his life and what's going on right now. However even back then I had trouble trusting him, I thought he cheated on me and wasn't the guy on the picture.
I even found out he send other girls messages too, lying about his age, and asked him about it he told me his friends send those messages and he would never cheat on me, I still can't believe that untill this day.
He saw my picture and told me I'm not his type (while others tell me I'm pretty and look cute) he told me he looks so handsome and can get any woman he wants but that he chooses to love me, cuz of that I feel ugly and not good enough for him... he says love is all about the inside.. I disagree with that because when you're in love you find that person the most beautiful person outside too right? if not I would think you would lust over others.
I walked away so many times.. but we always came back to each other and never stopped loving each other.
Last month I deleted him again and blocked him for 4 weeks, cuz I didn't trust him anymore and I was tired of our love and how obsessed we were with each other that it even made my relationship with God less and distant.
Yesterday I had a break down...I missed him so much that I emailed him again and guess what? he was still there waiting for me to come back to him and talk to him again.. he just forgave me and told me he wants to come to my country to marry me and never be apart again.
I'm still confused and have doubts about him.. I mean I hear so many crazy stories of crazy guys on the internet who make girls love them and then meet them and let those females work in the sex industry etc.
I also faked my voice to him to sound better and not so boring.. I feel like I faked myself to him.. but I deeply care about him and don't want to hurt him again.
I feel so bad I feel like dying and I know I have to stop this relationship but I don't know how.. I fell back so many times
There's just too much doubt here.
What shall I do?.