Please pray for me and my friend!!

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bullssoxfan23

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I have a really good friend who is a guy and we have been friends since middle school. I recently developed a crush on him but he is not a Christian. I don't really know what religion he concurred himself but he believes somethings that I don't believe in. I would like to have a relationship with him but I don't want to be "unequally yolked". Please pray for me as I struggle with my strong feelings for him and also his salvation and that he would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus and his love for us. I love him so much as a friend and I would love to be his sister in Christ. Thanks family!!!
 
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bullssoxfan23

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Can anyone relate to me?
 
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Ugly

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Forums don't always get fast reply's. Some posts can go hours without any response, so you just have to be patient.

We do have a prayer request section as well. You may want to post there instead as the people there are looking to pray specifically. Also tends to be a bit more active than the teens section.

I have been in situations where i've had feelings for a non-Christian. Its tough, but its tougher to date them. Many times they will not carry the same values and morals. As a result they will encourage you into their behavior. Or even if thats not the case, you always have in the back of your mind a concern for their lifestyle, and fear of them not being saved. To purposefully invest your feelings into someone that you constantly fear their going to hell puts a lot of strain on you. And it can lead to you accepting wrong beliefs to convince yourself that they aren't going to help.
 
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bullssoxfan23

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Yeah...ik...I'm not going to compromise my beliefs for anyone and I still dont swear around him but I don't want to get too attached, ya kno.
 
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Lucy68

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Will he go to church with you?

Asking him is also a good way of letting him know that your Christian beliefs are very important to you :)
 
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bullssoxfan23

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He went to church with me this time last year but everytime I ask him he's been busy.
 
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