Backsliding,Please help me.

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caygirl_pana

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Well,im only 13 years old but im mature minded for my age...and when i tell ppl im 13 they never believe me..
But yeah, allmost all of my friends are not christians .
and my best friend isnt, but i really love and care for her

but im begining to lose my faith and walk in the wrong direction.

can someone please help me,pleaseeeeee
 

starfield

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Hey, welcome.
If you feel she is a hindrance to your walk with God, be cautious and wise. Evil communications corrupts good manners. Share the word of God with your friends; God will definitely save them.
God bless.
 
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dustin

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its kinda funny some peopel think im 12 but im 15 i thinks its becsue im small for my age im only 5feet 3 110 pounds
 
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morgan2294

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Here's my advice. Pray for your friends and also ask God to give you opportunities to wittness to them and the courage to. I basically have the same problem- a lot of my friends aren't Christians at my school. My best friend is a Christian tho, and that's what brings us together. She doesn't go to the same school as me and that's really hard sometimes. I'll pray for you and your friends!
 
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caygirl_pana

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Your all right, and thank you for your wonderfull advice.
God bless you and keep you safe

P.S : KEEP PRAYING FOR ME !
 
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TIWIH777

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woah woah woah. caygirl please listen to what i have to say. this advice is all good, but if they really are non believers you've got to be careful about quoting scripture. we want to christinaity to be a personal, meaningful thing, not a few lines of jargon that we spout off. so my advice is this: be very careful about who you hang about, and when you're with them if they do something outrageous you may have to tell them to stop and get out of there. otherwise just do your best with God's help to resist any evil they do. BE a friend, and don't nag them about religion. A lot of kids our age (I'm 17, and I understand what you mean about being mature. I feel like my mind is at least 3 years older than the rest of me and my friends in some areas) don't want to here religious stuff blasted at them. I advise that instead of quoting scripture if the opportunity arises respond or speak casaully---aka say the scripture, but don't quote it. get the message across correctly but not by quoting it. rather, give them the meanign, give them the spice and truth of scripture without directly quoting it. I think you'll find that they'll (at least, i hope for more) not bash you about jsut saying something good rather than popping off a bible verse. try that, but dont' get pushy. we want them to find christ, not get shoved into a closet wtih him.

God bless you, fight the good fight, teen years are hard, i know cuz i'm there and there's so much evil out there it's pathetic, especially with sex stuff. you and God can do it. Together you can accomplish anything.
 
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caygirl_pana

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yeah, thanks...you just said something that im having a bit of a problem with.............
 
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Ganizani

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Hi, I'm a Pastor....one thing you've got to know is that the love of the Lord is upon you and that he cares for you...I was going through the other responses from other members, and they're just glorious! I can't say much....but I'm praying for you.God is with you.

Grace and peace to you my sister.
 
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Jordan9

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Friends who aren't Christians, eh? Lol, story of my life!

I became a Christian about 8 months ago at age 18. It was the start of second semester at university, and I'd say 99.9% of my friends were atheist, agnostic, or some variable there within. Some of my friends are religiously apathetic, while others were (and are) adamantly opposed to religion in it's entirety, Christianity or otherwise.

The first thing to do is to seek out Christian friends. Find a Bible study if you can. Does your school have a Christian fellowship group?

Don't turn your backs on your non-Christian friends, though. Of course you want to remain steadfast in your faith, but if you can do that AND be a witness to your friends, you'll be blessed indeed. A Christian missionary by the name of CT Studd once said, "Some want to live within the sound of church or chapel bell; I want to run a rescue shop within a yard of hell."
 
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collective

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its easier to give up certain friends that God may be sweetly trying to ask you to give to him than live through the consequences of the sinful actions only to regret that you kept your friends for God to show you what you couldve been in your life, if you are backsliding its because youve said no to God, Ive been there and you have that chance now to let the love you have for your friends be directed to God and he will bless you for it if and will surprise your life with what he has installed for you,then you will realise that it wasnt much of a sacrifice after all after the cross of Jesus is a revelation to you deeper, do this for you, for your life and for the reward you will get in heaven,
 
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collective

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i used to pump this verse into my "now" 16 year old son whom i had at the age of 18, in Proverbs, My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.
 
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I would suggest reading a book called "Imitation of Christ" by Thomas Kempis in the morning and New Testament Scripture at night. Even just a page a day can help.
May the Lord be with you Always