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Yes white guys do like black girls. Do white guys want to be in long term relationships with black girls? Rarely. Take a look around the country. You don't see a lot of white men and black women together. Why? Because blacks and whites have extremely horrible historical relations that still have an effect today. There are huge economical and cultural differences between the two races making it more difficult to be in a relationship. If you like white men, go for it. Just know that there will be a lot of people who have a problem with it. God bless you.
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In my experiences it has primarily been purely based on what the person is like. For guys I know as well as myself, it has been assumptions about our races that have hindered us. Assumptions of who we are and what we are like have been a bother, but very few of the "brown"(African, Spanish, Middle Eastern) guys that I know care about race, some of the "white" guys have, but even then it has been due to cultural customs, not truly their personal wants.
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Most of these race issues are based on how media portrays race relations, and people's unhandled sin... (bitterness, pride, shame)... These sins go both ways, so don't think I'm picking on one color or the other. There are certainly cultural and economic differences to consider, but you will find this in any nationality, and amongst couples of the same color. There are plenty of people of different colors who share the same culture. As the saying goes, "When I was a poor black child..." Well, I was a poor white child surrounded by poor Latin kids. I was also around "poor black kids" and "poor Asian kids".
The point is we should look at a persons character and not their skin color. Crazy comes in all colors... but so does God-fearing and sensible.
The point is we should look at a persons character and not their skin color. Crazy comes in all colors... but so does God-fearing and sensible.
we have preferences indeed, but self control is a fruit to be very much exercised. and the foundation of how much we would go into "prefering black girls or white girls or black boys or white boys (for opposite sex)", should be STRICTLY scriptual. we do not look at a woman to lust after in our minds, for that will be sinning.
but most importantly relationships are not things you go in and out of as you please really. they can be a total waste of time, a distraction to your priorities and can sever your relationship with GOD.
seek ye GODS kingdom first and its righteous and other things such as marriage, finances etc will be added unto you.
i have been in over 3 relationships and each proved a problem to my relationship with GOD. i believe you can learn that there s a big risk when you do this.
Focus on GOD eitherway sis, worry not if the "Good guys" will be taken when you age, GOD knows everyman on earth, and knows "the MAN" for you. either black or white, so worry not on it, neither take thought for it. JESUS CHRIST is what matters.
but most importantly relationships are not things you go in and out of as you please really. they can be a total waste of time, a distraction to your priorities and can sever your relationship with GOD.
seek ye GODS kingdom first and its righteous and other things such as marriage, finances etc will be added unto you.
i have been in over 3 relationships and each proved a problem to my relationship with GOD. i believe you can learn that there s a big risk when you do this.
Focus on GOD eitherway sis, worry not if the "Good guys" will be taken when you age, GOD knows everyman on earth, and knows "the MAN" for you. either black or white, so worry not on it, neither take thought for it. JESUS CHRIST is what matters.
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