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Hi, I have a best friend. She and I have a great relationship, even though we've had many struggles and fights. Everything has been fine, till today. I posted a picture on instagram and it said "A friend is one who looks past the broken fence and at your flowers in the garden." She then commented "You have no flowers :)" I was extremely confused and I don't want another falling out between her and I. Then, she tagged me in a picture that said "You little sh**" I'm so worried and I know she loves drama and we only have 3 days of school left, but I seriously do NOT want to end it on a bad note. I'm so confused.
Sincerely, cierra
 
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Chezz

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Hmmm, Maybe you can try to speak to her about it? Tell her how you feel? and tell her you don't want to start drama between you and her?
 
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Ugly

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what's confusing? she's a drama queen and a fake friend. only confusing thing is why you would wabt someone like that in your life.
 
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JessicaMae

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If someone loves to start drama, you are going to have to be the bigger person. you definitely do NOT want to end on a bad note. I had a best friend who loves drama and a week before school got out we got into a big fight. And all summer I swear she made it her job to turn people against me. And when school came around I was shocked at how many people she turned against me. Now we are..really awkward acquaintances..even though all is forgiven it still awkward to have a conversation with her because of all the things she said about me, and this happened a year ago. Learn from what happened to me, and let this fight go. It may be hard at first to apologize or whatever you choose to do, but it WILL pay off in the long run.
Good luck!
 

Kizzy

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Yeah I agree with Ugly. She sounds like a fake friend. And if you dislike the drama then why be friends with someone who clearly brings it into your life just because she likes the thrill... ? Sounds to me like you may need to figure out what you want in friendships and what kind of people you want to surround yourself with. Be very choosy about who you spend your time with.
 

Lucy68

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Ignore it and disconnect from her....this is not a friend. I bet there are nice people around you that would be true friends. Make sure Jesus is number 1. His truth will reveal to you the wonderful you God created you to be. You don't need this kind of 'drama' (rudeness) from someone who is a fake friend.
 
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Mirabelle

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She's a fake friend, I suggest you get a true Christian friend. If you don't like drama and she loves it, it's best you end the relationship as subtly as you can, or else it'll end badly (Been there, over that)
 

yac11

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First of all, better a friend than a family member. So remember this, I don't remember who said it but it applies and never forget because it will help you to stay strong and shrug it off and not loose any bit of self esteem over it.

Some people just don't want to be at Peace with you. Period. That's it. Don't think about it again and move on. The ones that listen to her and don't come to ask you your side and treat you mean.....they were never good people anyway. God Bless you
 
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hattiebod

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Hi, I have a best friend. She and I have a great relationship, even though we've had many struggles and fights. Everything has been fine, till today. I posted a picture on instagram and it said "A friend is one who looks past the broken fence and at your flowers in the garden." She then commented "You have no flowers :)" I was extremely confused and I don't want another falling out between her and I. Then, she tagged me in a picture that said "You little sh**" I'm so worried and I know she loves drama and we only have 3 days of school left, but I seriously do NOT want to end it on a bad note. I'm so confused.

Sincerely, cierra
''Many struggles and fights''...yet all is fine?....I think not...??
You know things have not been fine...maybe she is not a best friend?
Pray...do not abandon her, she maybe needs you more than you need her :) but do seek other company too, where you will be lifted up, not torn down! God bless you, daughter of the King! <><
 
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Grey

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Sounds like someone may have said something about you that wasn't true, to her.
 
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bright26

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Talk to her and if she doesnt want to talk too,leave her alone.ive been this same issue a million times and time after time ive been striving for us to be frnds again and again and all it did was fail and fail again.Each time this has happened i would worry about it all the time and it would keep me from enjoying my day.Dont worry about it,just let god work.If god doesnt want you guys to be frnd then good,because its for your good.Let go and let God.However,the situation is going to hurt,and that is why we r so gratful and blessed to have a God who comforts us in our struggles and problems so that we can comfort others and enjoy life.