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No you can't say you're a virgin, because you already lost it.... but it should not matter to other Christians because that's all in the past 
Everyone has a shameful past that they may regret, but like kenisyes said... You are a new creation, it shouldn't matter what happened in the past. What matters now is your life and relationship with Jesus Christ and how you live in his sight for the rest of your life.
Everyone has a shameful past that they may regret, but like kenisyes said... You are a new creation, it shouldn't matter what happened in the past. What matters now is your life and relationship with Jesus Christ and how you live in his sight for the rest of your life. 
What JimJimmers said... none of their business in almost every possible context. But it definitely doesn't make God view you negatively or anything of the sort, and neither should it a person. I can't imagine anyone bringing this up to you in casual conversation unless they wanted to feel superior or judge someone. (I'm guessing most of the people who bring this up are virgins?)
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Its up to you to judge when you think the relationship is mature enough to handle an answer to such a question. You can't be scared about being truthful with someone if they are the right person for you, because the right person for you will see you as God's child and accept the past as the past. If they cannot accept it, then they might not be the right person... that is probably better to know sooner rather then later; I would think. Just probably no earlier than you feel like you can trust that person and the relationship has developed to that level of honesty.
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I would tell the truth by saying "No- I made mistakes and lost my virginity when I was younger, but when I became a Christian I repented of that and decided to wait to get married before ever doing it again... And since then, I've stuck to that and I haven't done it." Any true Christian, knowing that he has been forgiven of his sins too, will totally understand. God bless
There's shame in all of our lives. Some of us still live in shame, even knowing the truth, we avoid the grace God has given us to live that holy lifestyle that is require of us, for all servants, to be faithful in the calling of God. My sister, you are not a virgin, but your calling is still on your life, forfeit not the grace of God, and walk towards the high calling God has for you. Thinking ahead about your future date isn't what God desire for you, but rather you obey the commandments of God, and walk freshly in the anointing of the Holy Ghost. Allow God to give you your husband, allow God to set up your date, allow God to tell you, "That man will be your husband one day." Until that time comes, give your life to Christ, and truly walk in the ways of Yahweh, being interpreted, "Jesus." May God bless your soul, and allow you to astray away from such rigor dating. Such things, will cause you to not only disgrace yourself, but cause you to open up doors you shouldn't. And eventually, sex would be considered in every date corner. Isn't my word fresh out the bakery? Does it not touch your heart as I speak to you? Listen my sister, give your heart to God. And truly, He will open the path for you to find the love of your life.
If this is not so? It is not because He didn't send, it is because you aren't seeking all the righteousness of God, for whosoever seeketh all the righteousness of God, all these things will be added unto you. Seek ye the kingdom of God first, and all these things will be added unto you. Deceive not yourself, and say, "You are." Going to church sunday, Bible study on Wednesday, isn't seeking God's face. Rather, just a meeting convention. To seek God's face, you ought to knock where God has called you, follow through by faith in the direction he points you. Rather it's to serve and clean toilets, or to help at a local Sunday Church. Give your all to Christ.
If this is not so? It is not because He didn't send, it is because you aren't seeking all the righteousness of God, for whosoever seeketh all the righteousness of God, all these things will be added unto you. Seek ye the kingdom of God first, and all these things will be added unto you. Deceive not yourself, and say, "You are." Going to church sunday, Bible study on Wednesday, isn't seeking God's face. Rather, just a meeting convention. To seek God's face, you ought to knock where God has called you, follow through by faith in the direction he points you. Rather it's to serve and clean toilets, or to help at a local Sunday Church. Give your all to Christ.
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I would say no. You, technically, are not a virgin. True, we are new creatures in Christ, but that's our soul, not our body. If a person smoked for 20 years before getting saved, they still have to live with the effects of their smoking. If a doctor says 'are you now, or have you ever been a smoker' the person says 'yes'.
And if you are worried about someone refusing you for not being a virgin, i'd say good. Peoples pasts should not be held against them, unless there is some obvious reason why it will have a negative effect. And if someone can't look past your previous transgressions, they are probably not someone you would be happy with anyways.
And if you are worried about someone refusing you for not being a virgin, i'd say good. Peoples pasts should not be held against them, unless there is some obvious reason why it will have a negative effect. And if someone can't look past your previous transgressions, they are probably not someone you would be happy with anyways.