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godsnotdead20178

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I'm friend's with this Christian girl, I'm pretty sure she likes me because shes said it before but then just says shes joking, i think she was telling the truth. What should I do?
 
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Richie_2uk

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Don't go on assumption, some actions, can make people think things that's not really happening. I'm not saying by what ever she is doing to give you impression that she likes you or not. But take your time, make sure God will is in it. Sometime people will say things they mean and say they are joking. But then sometimes they can not mean what they say. and give you what you want to hear. So don't listen to words alone. they say actions speaks louder than words. But at the end of the day. if God's ready for you to have a relationship, he will put that right person before you. so trust God more than your feelings and assumptions. God bless.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Wait.. she said she liked you then was like SIKE!!!

Yeah


Keep movin
 
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Ugly

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godsnotdead20178 said:
I'm friend's with this Christian girl, I'm pretty sure she likes me because shes said it before but then just says shes joking, i think she was telling the truth. What should I do?
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True or not, she sounds like a drama queen. Rather than going off of the idea of whether or not she likes you, why don't you consider if she is worth the time to find out. And is someone who would say that, and then take it back, really someone you want to be with anyways?
 
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ericb

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I think it is a wise idea to stay friends with people and not start dating. After getting to know your Sisters in Christ, the right Women will come along and you will know to Marry, with out having to date. Dating is not good, friends then Marriage. Plus I am under the assumption that it is better not to Marry, it is a big responsibility and takes your energy away from God. Make sure he wills it, and he will bring the right girl at the right time. Don't spend your time looking for a wife, or girlfriend but spend your time looking for Jesus. (Under every rock,)
 
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jimmydiggs

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godsnotdead20178 said:
I'm friend's with this Christian girl, I'm pretty sure she likes me because shes said it before but then just says shes joking, i think she was telling the truth. What should I do?
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If she's gonna play games, let her lose at her own game. Leave her alone, she's not mature if she's playing games.
 
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Jesusismyrock

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I'm not sure if some people do this but some people might say they like you to see the reaction and then say they were joking so it hey aren't exactly saying they like you but they are seeing if you like them or not. By seeing you reaction.
 
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Dfe

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If you like her, then ask her out. If not, then don't. It's that simple.
 
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Joyce015

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maybe shes scared of letting herself like someone because of past experiences in her life or she had seen. Just ask her out if she says no then move on
 
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Careen

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this age is not really true to dating ...if she really like you, tell her wait for you until you are over 17 or graduate
the most important is pray to God ,go to seek what his will and make sure the girl is prepared by God for you
 
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Exoaria

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Ugly said:
True or not, she sounds like a drama queen. Rather than going off of the idea of whether or not she likes you, why don't you consider if she is worth the time to find out. And is someone who would say that, and then take it back, really someone you want to be with anyways?
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Exactly this. Girls that are ready for a relationship are ready to be honest about their feelings and not even begin to hint that they're thinking otherwise... even as a joke. I'd suggest steering clear of a relationship with her at this stage. She sounds like the type to start unnecessary and plain weird melodrama for no reason.
 
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