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    Default A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Being a Christian in high school is ok, but the fact that I,m been looked down at because I don't look like the majority of girls makes me feel as if I am nothing. I know that i am fairfully and wonderfully made. But I cant walk somewhere without a guy just commenting on how I small by but or boobs are :S It's like really is that needed?? See where I live the girls are.. well you know, fully developed at a young and because I don't develop that fast, its all of a sudden a large flaw that is kept being trowed at in my face.
    Any advise?. I cant choose another way to walk to my classes, because wouldn't that make them realize that what they are saying is getting to me? which it is.

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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Uphold your worth and hold your head up high. After all...

    Don’t allow people’s judgment of your physique affect your self-esteem. Those guys aren't even worth your time and energy. Surround yourself with good friends.
    Best of luck.

    "So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy" (Romans 9:16)

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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    My advice is don't listen to them.
    Don't pay them no mind.
    Breast size is nothing.
    How many top models are stacked?
    - Like I said, don't listen to them; - they are idiots.

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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Stop it. You're beautiful. Look at your picture. They are jealous. High school girls can be so mean. And for what? In a few years they will still be mean and you will still be beautiful inside and out.

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    Being a Christian in high school is ok, but the fact that I,m been looked down at because I don't look like the majority of girls makes me feel as if I am nothing. I know that i am fairfully and wonderfully made. But I cant walk somewhere without a guy just commenting on how I small by but or boobs are :S It's like really is that needed?? See where I live the girls are.. well you know, fully developed at a young and because I don't develop that fast, its all of a sudden a large flaw that is kept being trowed at in my face.
    Any advise?. I cant choose another way to walk to my classes, because wouldn't that make them realize that what they are saying is getting to me? which it is.

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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    In my opinion it's good to be small in those type of areas rather then fully developed cuz that means that your not gunna be attracting the wrong kind of attention from guys soo don't mind them
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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Pray for the Lord to have mercy on those sinners.

    Psalm 109
    David complains to God of his slanderous enemies
    To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David.
    1 Hold not thy peace, O God of my praise; 2 For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful are opened against me: they have spoken against me with a lying tongue. 3 They compassed me about also with words of hatred; and fought against me without a cause. 4 For my love they are my adversaries: but I give myself unto prayer. 5 And they have rewarded me evil for good, and hatred for my love. 6 Set thou a wicked man over him: and let Satan stand at his right hand. 7 When he shall be judged, let him be condemned: and let his prayer become sin. 8 Let his days be few; and let another take his office. 9 Let his children be fatherless, and his wife a widow. 10 Let his children be continually vagabonds, and beg: let them seek their bread also out of their desolate places. 11 Let the extortioner catch all that he hath; and let the strangers spoil his labour. 12 Let there be none to extend mercy unto him: neither let there be any to favour his fatherless children. 13 Let his posterity be cut off; and in the generation following let their name be blotted out. 14 Let the iniquity of his fathers be remembered with the Lord; and let not the sin of his mother be blotted out. 15 Let them be before the Lord continually, that he may cut off the memory of them from the earth. 16 Because that he remembered not to shew mercy, but persecuted the poor and needy man, that he might even slay the broken in heart. 17 As he loved cursing, so let it come unto him: as he delighted not in blessing, so let it be far from him. 18 As he clothed himself with cursing like as with his garment, so let it come into his bowels like water, and like oil into his bones. 19 Let it be unto him as the garment which covereth him, and for a girdle wherewith he is girded continually. 20 Let this be the reward of mine adversaries from the Lord, and of them that speak evil against my soul.
    Turning to his own misery, he prays for help and promises thankfulness
    21 But do thou for me, O GOD the Lord, for thy name's sake: because thy mercy is good, deliver thou me. 22 For I am poor and needy, and my heart is wounded within me. 23 I am gone like the shadow when it declineth: I am tossed up and down as the locust. 24 My knees are weak through fasting; and my flesh faileth of fatness. 25 I became also a reproach unto them: when they looked upon me they shaked their heads. 26 Help me, O Lord my God: O save me according to thy mercy: 27 That they may know that this is thy hand; that thou, Lord, hast done it. 28 Let them curse, but bless thou: when they arise, let them be ashamed; but let thy servant rejoice. 29 Let mine adversaries be clothed with shame, and let them cover themselves with their own confusion, as with a mantle. 30 I will greatly praise the Lord with my mouth; yea, I will praise him among the multitude. 31 For he shall stand at the right hand of the poor, to save him from those that condemn his soul.
    Psalms 109:1-31 (KJV)


    Hope this helps.
    Look also at Psalms 83
    "2 For, lo, thine enemies make a tumult: and they that hate thee have lifted up the head. 3 They have taken crafty counsel against thy people, and consulted against thy hidden ones.
    Psalms 83:2-3 (KJV)"

    "Psalm 83
    The conspiracies of God's enemies
    A Song or Psalm of Asaph.
    1 Keep not thou silence, O God: hold not thy peace, and be not still, O God. 2 For, lo, thine enemies make a tumult: and they that hate thee have lifted up the head. 3 They have taken crafty counsel against thy people, and consulted against thy hidden ones. 4 They have said, Come, and let us cut them off from being a nation; that the name of Israel may be no more in remembrance. 5 For they have consulted together with one consent: they are confederate against thee: 6 The tabernacles of Edom, and the Ishmaelites; of Moab, and the Hagarenes; 7 Gebal, and Ammon, and Amalek; the Philistines with the inhabitants of Tyre; 8 Assur also is joined with them: they have holpen the children of Lot. Selah.
    A prayer for protection against those who oppress the church
    9 Do unto them as unto the Midianites; as to Sisera, as to Jabin, at the brook of Kison: 10 Which perished at Endor: they became as dung for the earth. 11 Make their nobles like Oreb, and like Zeeb: yea, all their princes as Zebah, and as Zalmunna: 12 Who said, Let us take to ourselves the houses of God in possession. 13 O my God, make them like a wheel; as the stubble before the wind. 14 As the fire burneth a wood, and as the flame setteth the mountains on fire; 15 So persecute them with thy tempest, and make them afraid with thy storm. 16 Fill their faces with shame; that they may seek thy name, O Lord. 17 Let them be confounded and troubled for ever; yea, let them be put to shame, and perish: 18 That men may know that thou, whose name alone is JEHOVAH, art the most high over all the earth.
    Psalms 83:1-18 (KJV)"

    When they try to hurt you, take comfort that the Lord is with you. And Pray to him in those times, and praise him for all the good he has given you and done for you!

    God bless.
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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    High School is a difficult time, especially today when there is a great deal of bullying going on. Hang in there. You have amazing value and beauty and the Lord takes great delight in you. He made you exactly as He wanted you and He is not disappointed in you.

    Is it possible to use an iPod or MP3 player or walkman or something as you walk between classes? That might help. I am so sorry that you have to deal with that. Things like this make me sad.
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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    You really just need to ignore them. I'm pretty much the same...but i never let it drag me down.
    There is so much more to this life than just looks and they don't realize it. Often they think the world revolves around looks, talents, abilities, etc. It's not. God created you and I just the way we are. He knows exactly what we are going through and He would never push us beyond what we can bear. <33

    Stay strong in HIM, sister! <3333
    We are beautiful. No matter what men (or teenage gossips) may say. <333
    Hope you are encouraged! \^V^/

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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    As many others are saying here, try to ignore them. The same things happened to me a few years back, and it really began to get me down. I started to listen to and believe what these people said, instead of understanding that God loves me and I am fearfully and wonderfully made! Go to the Bible to see your worth, don't listen to these other people. Even just from your picture, you are beautiful!!!
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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Thanks guyss!! this means the world to me <3
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    Default Re: A high school issue!! need some advice..

    Genp is spot on the money.
    People who judge like that don't know what they're doing.
    Looks and features mean nothing to God.
    Don't listen to them.
    hayliegrace is right.
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    Don't listen to them. As a christian male..I don't even care. I care if you love Jesus and walk with him in faith. I care if your kind, caring and gentle. The outside is so easy to look at, because people don't understand the inside!!

    Be proud of who you are in Jesus!!
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    jrccomputer couldn't have said it better.

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