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Raine

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mailmandan said:
Speaking of CREEPERS. I have a question for all the young ladies (guys can voice their opinion as well). I am a 48 year old mailman who delivers mail to a lot of businesses. Whenever I deliver mail to a business with a teenage girl working there and I say hello or how are you doing, I usually get a quick response, then they turn away or no response and a dirty look. Are young women these days convinced that older men are ALL creepers? :confused:

I'm actually a friendly person and I certainly don't believe that I look creepy. I never have that problem with middle aged to older women.
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She might have just misinterpreted... Like... I met this really nice older gentlemen to help me at this store once, like menards or something, and I thought he was really nice until he winked at me... Then I just felt awkward... Thinking back, I think he might have intended it to be a friendly wink, but I interpreted it as "awwwkwarrdddd."
 
mailmandan

mailmandan

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Richie_2uk said:
There could be strong teachings from the parents not to talk to people they don't know no matter how friendly they seem.
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Very true, stranger danger.

I guess its the way the world and society has gone. there was a time you could go up to a kid and say a friendly hello. But nowa days, its gone too much, you can't look at a kid without you being a suspect of some sort of creeper. I Know your heart was in right place Mailmandan, but I guess you just have to hold your nice hello's in.
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It's a real shame! I don't remember all this "creeper" stuff back in the 70's and 80's.

Perhaps that person was in a bad mood, or maybe that time of the year, or it could of been a numerous of things. Its just the way the world and society has gone. Sad to say, but people has to be careful these days when showing a friendly hi or hello's. God bless.
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At one time it was normal to be friendly to other people, now when you are friendly, people seem to be quick to think that you have some kind of angle or you are plotting on them. I really miss the 80's. I can't believe that it's already been 30 years since I graduated from High School! From the time that I was young compared with how things are now, sometimes I feel like I live on a different planet!
 
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Raine said:
She might have just misinterpreted... Like... I met this really nice older gentlemen to help me at this store once, like menards or something, and I thought he was really nice until he winked at me... Then I just felt awkward... Thinking back, I think he might have intended it to be a friendly wink, but I interpreted it as "awwwkwarrdddd."
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Maybe it was intended to be a friendly wink, but I could see how you may have taken it the wrong way. Winking at young women is something that I just don't do. I would actually expect a young woman to feel awkward if I winked at her.
 
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WolfGaming

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Shaaa said:
You guys are rude! All he wanted was a girl. People get lonely. A christian friend would try to listen and pray. Not call him a creeper or say this is stupid! We're all looking for that perfect person. So untill the day none of you are trying to find the right person, dont judge him!
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Thank you!!!!!
 
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You dont need a gf at this time and age, focus on more important things.... Like getting closer to Christ and being a better you.

Also this isnt a dating site... If you're feeling lonely find some good and close friends to keep you company and have a quiet time with God.
 
blue_ladybug

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This thread is 2 years old and the OP's last online activity was December 19th, 2013.. please don't pull zombie threads such as this one forward.
 
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zoii

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I'm perfect but not available. ... just kidding:D
 
secularhermit

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blue_ladybug said:
Sorry to burst the bubble, but there is no such thing as the perfect girl or perfect guy. We are all IMPERFECTLY created. No such thing as perfection on this sinful, evil earth. The only place perfection exists is in heaven. :)
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You said that by Ago 6th, 2014 but now I know what your crush is... :p
 
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This is NOT the perfect girl! :eek:

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