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The whole staying as friends thing doesn't work most of the time. If he made an impact in your life, it's going to be very hard to stay friends. It's like letting your guard down. Don't be a second choice to him, because he just might come back (of course I don't know what happened between you two). The best thing to do is draw near to God as much as you can, and leave him be. It's extremely hard when some people gave you so much to remember. But if you stay in a tight place like that, it's going to make you grieve a lot more. You don't need that. You don't need that pressure and pain. If you ask God to lift up this burden from your soul, Jesus will lift it up. Do it whenever it starts to hurt, give in to God in all seasons of your life. Through the good and the bad. Because in the end, you will know He was the only one there for you when no one else was..from the time you were born, to the last breath you take. Treasure this moment now.
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If you can not stay together as boyfriend and girlfriend what chance would you stand being married? That is what a relationship is suppose to lead to. It is better to be out of a relationship that does not work now, that to keep going, get married and end up facing divorce. Thank God that He chose to spare you from a potentially bad marriage.
A saying that I shared with my kids, and it has seemed to serve them..."Only chose a date who'll make a good mate"
I did not allow my kids to "date" They got to know someone in a group setting, and then after some time, when they felt they were being led of God to become more the courtship began. That has saved many a teen from a bad dating relationship.
A saying that I shared with my kids, and it has seemed to serve them..."Only chose a date who'll make a good mate"
I did not allow my kids to "date" They got to know someone in a group setting, and then after some time, when they felt they were being led of God to become more the courtship began. That has saved many a teen from a bad dating relationship.
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I'm sorry that you're hurting, break-ups can be rough. I've gone through the "let's still be friends" thing, but at that time, it didn't work. I was too hurt and I needed space. So I asked him for it. The guy gave me the space I needed and I just focused on my relationship with God. After time, the hurt went away. And when I felt confident enough to believe that I wouldn't go begging for him to take me back, I told him that we could try the friends thing again. To this day, we are still really great friends. It did take a little time to get over the awkward stage, but we got through it. So just give yourself space, focus on God, and if you feel confident enough after you've healed, give him a call. Stay strong in the Lord and you'll be just fine.