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jamnyou

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#1
ihave a girlfriend
but the problem is I'm seriously get jealous to her best-friend. her bestfriend was a guy and that guy was inlove to my girl even though they call themselves bestfriends. his acts kinda annoying to see and i think my girl was just being blinded and telling me that her bestfriend was just her bestfriend but what should i do they're kinda sweet everytime i see them and people around us are asking me if theres anything between them.

please give me some advise cause im hurting. ilovemy girlfriend and to tell you guys honestly im keep prayin and prayin for patience for this ..to manage my anger whenever i get jealous.thanks
 
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Ugly

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#2
Have you talked to her about it directly and told her how you feel? If not then go do that.
Really, this is the hard part about dating. Each person is free to make their own choices, regardless of commitment, because there is no spiritual binding rules about how to behave. Its a personal choice to follow those guidelines, and nothing wrong with not following them. If you talk to her, or have talked to her, and she refuses to change, you don't really have any right to expect her to. You aren't married, so all you can do is share how you feel, express how you hope she'll act. And if she doesn't behave in a way to satisfy your needs, then you move on. You can't make her do anything.
 

jips

Junior Member
Jan 8, 2014
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Yep.. What Ugly said.. It'll be hard to do but necessary..
 
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jamnyou

Guest
#4
ugly... you have a point thanks
but i already talked to her.
all the time.. but nothing has changed. hehe it seems you're right ill accept it and move on.
thanks guys Godbless.