are piercings wrong?

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Neka13

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I have a nose piercing and both my ears are pierced once. The church I go to doesn't wear jewelry in general. I've also been to other churches that does....I love God and I try my best to do what's right in his eyes but its hard sometimes because I keep hearing all these different things and I'm not sure which to follow..
 

starfield

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The world places much emphasis on outward beautification but the bible emphasises inner beauty, godly character, which is lasting. Also, we are instructed to be modest in our appearance (1 Timothy 2:9, 1 Peter 3:3), e.g. not draw attention to ourselves. So ask yourself, are body piercings and modifications modest? Can you have them with a good conscience?
 
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38miles

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I have a nose piercing and both my ears are pierced once. The church I go to doesn't wear jewelry in general. I've also been to other churches that does....I love God and I try my best to do what's right in his eyes but its hard sometimes because I keep hearing all these different things and I'm not sure which to follow..
Does God love you more if you take out the piercings? Does He love you less if you keep them in? Sometimes we are so insular in the way we've been raised, the type of church we've been raised in, that we don't fully reckon with this big planet or the wider cultural context. We don't see through God's big eyes, but through our own narrowing ones which are relative to our own cultural backpack. If someone judges you or your piercings I think it actually has more to do with a problem in their heart, than yours. And if they actually say something to you, or look a certain way, then they're falling to that judgment. But, pray about it and ask God to reveal your intentions and motivation for having them.
 
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KittenofMelchisedek

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This is an interesting one. I used to have my lip pierced, and if it wouldn't make my mother sad my hair would be blood red right now like it used to be when I was a kid. Who says anyone has to look any particular way? I think it's good for people to express themselves, and be who God made them to be. I do think their clothing should be covering them though. I would much rather see modestly dressed freakshows than a scantily clad girl who had an unaltered appearance. That being said, you could definitely sin if you do pretty much anything for the wrong reasons LOL so I would pray first for sure. It can be a sensory thing, some peoples brains crave more intense sensory input than others.
 
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Neka13

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Thanks this is really helpful and personally I don't feel it affects me spiritually in any way.
 
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KittenofMelchisedek

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I used to look at it as a ministry of teaching people to not make strange faces at me in Church, because I'd go up to them and be like, why is this bothering you and how can we help you get over it, so if I were not saved yet, you wouldn't scare me away with your dirty looks. I let people touch and and inspect my lip and my gauged ears, some people even put their fingers in the hole in my earlobe and then they'd squeal and ask all sorts of questions, like did it hurt, does it still hurt, why in the world, and so forth. It was fun, and it helped people get more comfortable, some of them even started wearing sandals!!! LOL
 

posthuman

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unlike tattoos, there's a biblical precedent for piercings:

Now these are the rules that you shall set before them. When you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve six years, and in the seventh he shall go out free, for nothing. If he comes in single, he shall go out single; if he comes in married, then his wife shall go out with him. If his master gives him a wife and she bears him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her master’s, and he shall go out alone.
But if the slave plainly says, ‘I love my master, my wife, and my children; I will not go out free,’ then his master shall bring him to God, and he shall bring him to the door or the doorpost. And his master shall bore his ear through with an awl, and he shall be his slave forever.

(Exodus 21:1-6, also in Deuteronomy ch. 15)

what i've been told is that in the Jewish tradition the post put through the slaves ear had the name of his master inscribed on it.

i think a post with Jesus' name written on it would be a pretty nifty symbolic thing - but i've never met anyone who had this.

i had lots of piercings when i was younger, but it offended people in my church, even though i don't think the piercings were sinful, and even that they were meaningful to me, i used to take them out when i was around the church body, and eventually they lost all importance to me, and in fact my sister "borrowed" my jewelry and with the symbolism not as important to me as not offending others, i never bothered to ask her to return them. so now i just have holes in my ears & nose.

in principle i don't think piercings are wicked. they can become an idol of vanity to a person, and they can be an offense to some weak-minded believers, but they're just bits of metal, and the body is just dust.
can you use them as a witness? are they for your own vanity or for God? are they a stumbling block for others? are they a symbol of devotion for you?
in the end i think it's a trivial thing. God looks at your heart.


 
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beauty4ever

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Yes it is and if I may ad tattoos too
 
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Spokenpassage

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You can always check through these steps:

1) What does the Spirit say, or does it conflict your conscience?

2) How does it influence others (draw people to God or away from God)?

3) How does it influence you (does it draw you closer or away from God)?

4) What does scripture say?
 
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beauty4ever

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Yes, exactly what he says. What does the word of God says? Remember, we must do what the word of God tells us to do, even if we feel good about certain things. We tend to go by our emotions, and we cannot be guided by our emotions, emotions are from the heart. And the bible tells us that the heart is the most deceiving and perverted over all. Who will know the heart? I God. So, as you see, we cannot trust the heart. We are called to follow his word and nothing else and no one else. Don't let yourself guide by what men says, guide yourself about what his word says. And when you see what the word of God says, you make your choice according to his word, not according to how you feel, but through his word. The word is the light unto your feets and a light into your path. And when u do what he tells you to do, you are gonna feel a difference that you did not feel before us did it. God bless you.
 
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tucksma

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If it causes a stumbling block to anyone, then I'd take them out around them. Same concept as meat offered to Idols. If not then it kind of depends. Modesty is based on culture, and our culture today in my opinion would't call an earring not modest. So it comes down to if it offends anyone around you take them out when you are around them.
 
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Jseanette

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This is a really interesting topic, because the church I went to while I was in elementary school there were lots of people who had piercing, tattoo's, died hair, and one lady had dreadlocks. None of them were in inappropriate places. Mostly in the ear and/or nose. A lot of the tattoo's were simple things and some were of scripture, a cross, Jesus with a crown of thorns, etc. I personally don't think God has a problem with it, but I agree you should pray about it. Remember God will always love you no matter what, and I think having an piercing that shows you love God would be awesome. Same as getting a tattoo showing off Jesus. Just remember that a tattoo is forever and they fade and don't look good several years latter. Also if you get one make sure the place is clean.

You know another thing you could do is talk to a church leader, sit with them and ask them seriously what they think. Ask them if they think God would be against it. Ask them to pray with you too.
 
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Here's what a piercing says to me:
If I wear this, I will be associated with an image that is "edgy" and possibly "rebellious".
I will be associated with a lot of people who have piercings. That is what I will be associated with.
If I am interested in a member of the opposite sex, it will make them attracted to me if they find piercings attractive.
I want to pierce my skin, which may be painful, to adorn my body with this item.
I want to poke a hole in my skin in order to wear this object
The cost of going through having a metal object skewer my body is worth what I hope to gain by having that object adorn my body.

This is what a person who has a piercing is saying to me.
 
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Here is what it also says:
If a guy who is attracted to girls who wear piercings sees me, he will be attracted to me.
That guy might form feelings for me.
He might end up with a broken heart because he could not be in a relationship with me.
Because I wanted to adorn my body with this object, I am going to cause a man to have a broken heart.
It is worth it to break a man's heart because I want to wear this object on my body.
Therefore it is okay to break a mans heart if it means I can make this fashion statement.

Is that what you want?
 

Nautilus

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Here is what it also says:
If a guy who is attracted to girls who wear piercings sees me, he will be attracted to me.
That guy might form feelings for me.
He might end up with a broken heart because he could not be in a relationship with me.
Because I wanted to adorn my body with this object, I am going to cause a man to have a broken heart.
It is worth it to break a man's heart because I want to wear this object on my body.
Therefore it is okay to break a mans heart if it means I can make this fashion statement.

Is that what you want?
Yeah not every girl with piercings is out to break some guys heart. plus it takes more than a lip ring to fall in love. unless you have issues of course.
 
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Yeah not every girl with piercings is out to break some guys heart. plus it takes more than a lip ring to fall in love. unless you have issues of course.
That is true. And trust me, there are LOTS of guys who will fall for a girl simply because she has a lip ring. And the point is that she might not INTEND to break a heart, but she run the risk of doing it out of ignorance.
 

Nautilus

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That is true. And trust me, there are LOTS of guys who will fall for a girl simply because she has a lip ring. And the point is that she might not INTEND to break a heart, but she run the risk of doing it out of ignorance.
It her not her fault if a guy is that overly emotional. Seriously its his for being dumb.
 

myfriendtiny

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I think that piercings are fine. But depends on how you use them. Some ppl get so overwhelmed and use them as a God. So I would Just follow through the path that Jesus had planned for you and Just pray to GOd about it.
May the Lord bless you in each and every way.
 
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AmberGardner

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In Ezekiel, God is talking to Israel.

Ezekiel 16:11 I adorned you with jewelry: I put bracelets on your arms and a necklace around your neck, 12 and I put a ring on your nose, earrings on your ears and a beautiful crown on your head.

Genesis 24:47 "I asked her, 'Whose daughter are you?' "She said, 'The daughter of Bethuel son of Nahor, whom Milkah bore to him.' "Then I put the ring in her nose and the bracelets on her arms,

I think there is a difference between trying to beautify and trying to modify.
 
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KittenofMelchisedek

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It's not the lip ring that makes guys attracted to women with piercings. It's perversion in the mind of man, and if you can't contain your perversion, are women to then wear burkas and be completely covered?

First your offended by my clothing, it's how I feel comfortable, but it's a stumbling block for some, ok change that.
Then someone's offended by my hair being an unnatural color, ok change that too.
Then even though I'm wearing "normal" clothes, I still am still somehow a stumbling block, so I dress more modestly.
Now someone's offended by my hair, that they can see it at all makes them lust, someone hand me a scarf please...
Now that my face is the only thing exposed, the only thing left to cause one to stumble is my piercings. *sigh*
Ok, now people are offended by what I want to call my God, they are offended that I wont worship their idols, they are offended that I wont vote (democrat) because republicans are waging war on women and we've gotta stop them, and I say FREAKIN KNOCK IT OFF!!!
The ones waging the war on women are other women, given to lasciviousness and lusts of the flesh, they want sex and power. They use their clothing, their hair, their piercings, their God given talents, and very lives and souls, to worship the god of money. They act like the pharisees desiring prominent places of public prayer no matter what the Bible they're clutching says about any of it. When they see that you notice their figure, they stick out their hip. If you notice their lip ring, they lick their lips. This is an intentional act on the part of a woman to have comfort in this life, I know because before I was saved I engaged in similar behavior. So now, though I have freedom in Christ, I can do no thing with this flesh, though I'm stuck in it, because ALL things are stumbling blocks to the feeble minded. The deception that is running rampant in churches right now, as part of their prosperity bs and sorcery, is that we should be blank pages in empty picture frames.

I'm not going to bow down to the gods of money, or of ecumenical politics. I enjoy piercings. I like the part where they poke a hole in my skin. It isn't about adornment. We are to adorn ourselves with our works. To me, a piercing is a mode of self expression. It's one of the few things I enjoy that are not flat out condemned by scripture. No where does scripture say we should never enjoy anything. This is why people hate the law, and reject it, because they don't understand that the law demands our rejoicing. So if you can enjoy your wife, or your dog, or a favorite food. Than certainly, as long as it's not done with an attitude of rebellion or to excess, I can enjoy a piercing. Anyone who doesn't like it can either grow up, come talk to me about their issue, or just not look at me. Do you know how strange some people are to those of a different cultural paradigm? Christians need to be able to look at other people without falling on their faces, otherwise how can we expect to minister to anybody. "Hey I'm sorry you're starving, take out your piercings and you can eat with our family." "Oh sorry you don't know Jesus, your people cuss too much for our delicate ears, see you on judgement day."

Give me a break. I think I'm gonna go pierce something right now...LOL