Good Christian guys...do you exist?

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AbigailNicole

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Hey! Just looking for a guy who isnt a perv...
 
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Tintin

Guest
#2
Maybe try on another planet.

But seriously, yes, there are Christian guys who are godly and have integrity.
 
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ww_21

Guest
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From my own personal experience: Just because he says he's Christian does not make him a good guy. Be very careful my friend.
 

mystdancer50

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I agree with Tintin. They are out there. Just like there are pure and godly women out there. The thing is, one must trust and wait on God and by waiting, that doesn't mean sitting there looking spiffy. :) Waiting is an active thing when it comes to God. When He says go, we go. When He says stay, we stay. When He says yes, no one can prevent it. When He says no, insist on ignoring Him at your own peril.

Wait on God. Don't date for the sake of dating. Be patient. Godly men and women do exist and God knows exactly where they all are. :)
 
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Ecclesiastik

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I wouldn't advise online dating. I wouldn't even advise actively looking for a relationship unless it is done with much prayer and much self-sacrifice. And typically the people who you find online dating aren't much the type for much prayer and self-sacrifice. Just looking for a quick way to feel satisfied but your satisfaction shouldn't depend on a romantic relationship. It should depend on Jesus Christ.
 
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Kat7897

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When you find an answer to this one let me know! They're not necessarily a good guy just because they call themselves a Christian.. It's a painful process, but I'm sure you'll find a guy that's willing to wait. I recommend not dating online or long distance. A person can make themselves out to be anything, and more times than not they're worse than they portray themselves. Be careful!
 
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Ugly

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Funny. I always hear Christian guys asking if there are good Christian girls anywhere. Hmm...
And if you're posting in the Teen forum, then you must be a teen. Which means your exposure to males is teen boys. Not exactly a well experienced person to be asking such questions.
 
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biscuit

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#12
I didn't realize people still used the word perv...
I had to raise an eyebrow when I read her post, especially the way many of these teenage girls & young women dress today.
 
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drewdawgGA99

Guest
#13
I'm a junior in highschool, and I'll be the first to say, thats how it is. It's sad that a girl has to ask that question, but with the way guys are, its no suprise. However a guy after God's heart is the guy you want. There are few, but they are there. I try as hard as I can to be one of them
 
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Hey! Just looking for a guy who isnt a perv...
It depends on where you're at in life. If you're in high school, most guys in most church high school groups are there because of pressure from their parents (even if they claim otherwise), so you won't necessarily find a guy of high moral integrity there. If you're post-high-school however and still can't find someone, you probably want to try a different church.
 
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mari96

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haha, that's good, you keep trying :) we need you guys
 
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jackamo

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#20
Hey, not to sound condecending here or anything, but if your looking for a perfect christian guy, let me just quickly say, he doesn't exist. No one is perfect, but if your looking for a christian guy who makes mistakes, but learns from them. Then there are plenty around. Just wait until God brings the right guy for you.