I have a fetish i hate it so much, how can i get rid if it

[Noelle12]

so i have never told this to anyone but its eating away at me and i need help. I am so ashamed of it. im a 15 year old girl and i think i have a humiliation fetish. I cant stand it because i know im a nice person but it makes me
feel evil. I hate seeing people get embarrassed but for some reason if i think about it or watch videos about it sexually i can get off to it. I like
When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no idea. How can i stop it?? My dad also had a fetish (i found out about) he used to abuse my mom and he likes when people are hurt. I always think how sick and disgusting he is but then i think that im no different, the only is that i am a nice person at heart and i Know for a fact he isnt. I sicken myself because of this, how can i get rid of it completely

 

[myfriendtiny]

so i have never told this to anyone but its eating away at me and i need help. I am so ashamed of it. im a 15 year old girl and i think i have a humiliation fetish. I cant stand it because i know im a nice person but it makes me
feel evil. I hate seeing people get embarrassed but for some reason if i think about it or watch videos about it sexually i can get off to it. I like
When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no idea. How can i stop it?? My dad also had a fetish (i found out about) he used to abuse my mom and he likes when people are hurt. I always think how sick and disgusting he is but then i think that im no different, the only is that i am a nice person at heart and i Know for a fact he isnt. I sicken myself because of this, how can i get rid of it completely

Have you asked God for help? I have really never been in your situation before but I am adopted and my parents were kinda like you..only they like to see pain instead..I was adopted at age 4...I would suggest prayin about it and asking God for help because He can help you through all things if you ask him and receive his answer with a open heart.....If you want you can message me with any questions and I will answer them to the best of my ability..

May the Lord bless and guide you in each and every way.....

 

[SkepticJosh]

First off let me say you're not alone. You'd be surprised how many people share this very thing with you. What you need to understand is that it is not wrong or evil. It's actually more normal than you think compared to the thousands of other fetishes out there. Everybody is wired differently and this just happens to be the way you're wired. If you really hate it then alot of time, willpower, and maybe therapy might cure it. However, why cure it? It's a part of what makes you YOU. Why conform to what society thinks is normal? Normal is boring. Choosing normality and conformity over uniqueness is a waste. Embrace your feelings and learn to enjoy them. It will make you much happier and less stressed to just go with the flow instead of trying to fight your own nature. This isn't something you need to fear. You will find a lover someday who will love you enough and want to make you feel amazing. And they will use your fetish and you will use theirs and it will only bring you closer. Many relationships fall apart from people not being who they are and embracing the whole of each others persons. In short, do what makes you happy. Be you and don't let anyone tell you that any part of you is wrong.
PS. Your dads fetishes is the single most common fetish in the world. It's really not strange at all.

 

[TheAristocat]

How is wanting to see someone stripped of their clothes and embarassed of their nakedness being the same thing as a pedophile? I see these scenarios a lot in harem anime. Not exactly pedophilia, but certainly tiresome and played out.

The woman is stripped of her bra in front of the male protagonist by another angry woman who has forgotten that she has just gotten out of the shower without dressing. They both not-so-subtly slip on the floor and land on top of each other. The plot? What plot? There is no plot. It's an obvious device meant to manipulate men into watching the show. That's about the time I turn away from it, because it irritates me. Perhaps because it's too obvious and I feel it insults my intelligence. But what can you expect from a show aimed at pre-teens... er what? A show about naked women aimed at pre-teens? I guess that's the world for you.

 

[oldernotwiser]

i suggest you talk with a good counselor. i don't mean a pastor who counsels but rather a licensed, professional, christian counselor. that would be a start. ill be praying for you.

 

[Crazyteen]

so i have never told this to anyone but its eating away at me and i need help. I am so ashamed of it. im a 15 year old girl and i think i have a humiliation fetish. I cant stand it because i know im a nice person but it makes me
feel evil. I hate seeing people get embarrassed but for some reason if i think about it or watch videos about it sexually i can get off to it. I like
When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no When people are happy so i dont know why i get pleasure from people beinng embarrassed. I hate it so much but i cant control it at all. I drifted away from god a little bit and i know i shouldn't be thinking about sex at all but right now i just want to get rid of my fetish. I can get off to normal sex but i still find myself coming abck to my fetish. I need help I want god to help me. Ever since i was about 6 when i went to sleep at night i used to think about myself getting embarrassed at school. I hate beig embarrassed but for some reason i loved thinking about it. I know think about girls (sometimes guys) being naked and having stuff happen to them that embarrasses them. ( i am straight) I feel so sick and i hate it and i dont like getting pleasure from this. I basically have the same problem as a pedophile has, i cant control my urges. Its just what turns me on i have no idea. How can i stop it?? My dad also had a fetish (i found out about) he used to abuse my mom and he likes when people are hurt. I always think how sick and disgusting he is but then i think that im no different, the only is that i am a nice person at heart and i Know for a fact he isnt. I sicken myself because of this, how can i get rid of it completely

Remember that even Jesus got tempted.
Do not have a guilty conscience about thoughts you can't control.
Your actions are the real sin.
I'm sure their are many pedophiles that have a temptation pop into their head sometimes.
But their is a fine line between a tempting thought and a action, so don't let something silly get you down.
Just think: "I'm not acting upon these thoughts, nothing to be ashamed about, Jesus loves me and because I am able to withstand from acting upon these temptations, I am stronger in Christ"
I think the more you think about how bad this fetish is, the more miserable it will make you.
Whenever a temptation pops into your head, just start talking to jesus about it, visit a friend or go start a conversation with someone about some random subjects.
Remember that Jesus died on the cross to cleanse us of our sins, we don't have to have a guilty conscience about anything we have done or will do, as long as we always give our best to follow Christ.

 

[doseofreality]

Lol I apologize if I'm wrong but please this smells like a troll