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On Saturday, there was another big party that everyone I know at college went to. I'm talking parties where everyone's drunk, kissing, filled with lust, getting into fights, etc. It's nothing new; there's always parties like this here. But this time some of my closest friends went and got drunk. I've always seen them as 'the last hope' in the school, the last group of people that haven't been corrupted by the world (I really shouldn't have because they're just as human as me and you). Now I feel like there's no one around me that isn't like the world. I mean, all of them except two are not believers anyway, so I don't know why I'm so surprised, but I think it just hit me this time and made me realise that they're going to perish. Even my two Christian friends are falling away.
"Envy, drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God." ~ Galatians 5:21
"Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise." ~ Proverbs 20:1
They know how I feel about drunkenness and they know I stand in Christ and believe in His gospel, but they don't listen. What am I supposed to do? How can I bring them to Christ? I'm watching my friends kill themselves in their sin and it's breaking my heart. I realise now how the Father must feel about ALL of us when we sin against Him; they're fools but I love these fools, I don't want them to die. But I preach the gospel all the time, and that's all we can do, but they don't listen. What should I do? Should I just accept that they're not elect and detach myself from them so I don't feel so sorrowful about them, or keep on preaching in case God plans to bring them to Him but just not at the current time?
The other issue that's getting me down is that I clearly have no friends on my wavelength and although I speak to these people on a daily basis, get on with them extremely well and can have an amazingly enjoyable and humourous time with them all, I actually feel very lonely because I'm the only one that will abstain from worldly things. My two Christian friends believe in Christ, but are still attending things like these parties and indulging in worldly activities and debauchery. They only seem to be 'Christians' on Sundays, and they're a major part of the reason why I've actually been staying away from church for the past few months because I just feel like they're all hypocrites. However, my lack of fellowship with Christians and the anguish that's causing me is making me realise how stupid that decision of mine was. I'm thinking I should probably seek a new church where I can settle in and make some good solid friendships with people that won't cause me pain like my current friends.
But I'm not sure. I really don't know what to do. All thoughts, advice, prayers, help and fellowship would be extremely appreciated right now. Thank you for reading this and considering me and my friends. God bless you all in Jesus' name.
-Jon
"Envy, drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God." ~ Galatians 5:21
"Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise." ~ Proverbs 20:1
They know how I feel about drunkenness and they know I stand in Christ and believe in His gospel, but they don't listen. What am I supposed to do? How can I bring them to Christ? I'm watching my friends kill themselves in their sin and it's breaking my heart. I realise now how the Father must feel about ALL of us when we sin against Him; they're fools but I love these fools, I don't want them to die. But I preach the gospel all the time, and that's all we can do, but they don't listen. What should I do? Should I just accept that they're not elect and detach myself from them so I don't feel so sorrowful about them, or keep on preaching in case God plans to bring them to Him but just not at the current time?
The other issue that's getting me down is that I clearly have no friends on my wavelength and although I speak to these people on a daily basis, get on with them extremely well and can have an amazingly enjoyable and humourous time with them all, I actually feel very lonely because I'm the only one that will abstain from worldly things. My two Christian friends believe in Christ, but are still attending things like these parties and indulging in worldly activities and debauchery. They only seem to be 'Christians' on Sundays, and they're a major part of the reason why I've actually been staying away from church for the past few months because I just feel like they're all hypocrites. However, my lack of fellowship with Christians and the anguish that's causing me is making me realise how stupid that decision of mine was. I'm thinking I should probably seek a new church where I can settle in and make some good solid friendships with people that won't cause me pain like my current friends.
But I'm not sure. I really don't know what to do. All thoughts, advice, prayers, help and fellowship would be extremely appreciated right now. Thank you for reading this and considering me and my friends. God bless you all in Jesus' name.
-Jon