love between a believer and an unbeliver.

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there's this girl that told me she loves me. I told my sister about it and she said if the girl really loves me then she should pray for me. I also love this girl with Agape love but I think there some little romantic feeling to that. We usually discuss about Christ but we also discuss about love stuffs often. so pls I'll like to know if this is right or am I on the wrong track.
 
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Love is love, God seeks to unite us as people. Anyone on hear telling you otherwise is sticking to petty dogma over the actual message of the Bible
 
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I believe you know the answer. The real question is what will you do?
 
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I agree CRC. You know that you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Its just comes down to, what will you do?

I want this to be very clear to you,..if you do something you know not to do, in this case, its being in this relationship, Its choosing that person over God.
When you choose to put something else above God, it damages your relationship with him.
I did that to the point where I was no longer a Christian, and it is not something I recommend.
Don't allow something like that to start. It always looks small and innocent when it starts. Its actually huge and damaging.
Spend a lot of time in prayer about it. Seriously.
 
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faroukfarouk

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ronnie2796 said:
I agree CRC. You know that you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Its just comes down to, what will you do?

I want this to be very clear to you,..if you do something you know not to do, in this case, its being in this relationship, Its choosing that person over God.
When you choose to put something else above God, it damages your relationship with him.
I did that to the point where I was no longer a Christian, and it is not something I recommend.
Don't allow something like that to start. It always looks small and innocent when it starts. Its actually huge and damaging.
Spend a lot of time in prayer about it. Seriously.
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Eternal life cannot be taken away from a true child of God (Romans 8.38-39) but you are certainly right that we need to act consistently to a profession of faith in the Lord Jesus.

Amos 3.3: 'Can two walk together, except they be agreed?'
 
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faroukfarouk said:
Eternal life cannot be taken away from a true child of God (Romans 8.38-39) but you are certainly right that we need to act consistently to a profession of faith in the Lord Jesus.

Amos 3.3: 'Can two walk together, except they be agreed?'
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It was never taken away from me. God never said, "Whoops, looks like you can't be a Christian anymore!". I chose not to be. Its part of that free will that we all have. Just like the free will to choose Salvation.
But, this isn't a "once saved-always saved" debate,..

2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

Just don't go there with her dear.
 
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ronnie2796 said:
It was never taken away from me. God never said, "Whoops, looks like you can't be a Christian anymore!". I chose not to be. Its part of that free will that we all have. Just like the free will to choose Salvation.
But, this isn't a "once saved-always saved" debate,..

2 Corinthians 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

Just don't go there with her dear.
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Ephesians 2 is a good passage about the relative wills of God and the sinner, when it comes to saving faith.
 
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David234 said:
Love is love, God seeks to unite us as people. Anyone on hear telling you otherwise is sticking to petty dogma over the actual message of the Bible
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Love is obviously important, but never will love be more important than truth. Hiding behind 'love' to accuse people of dogma as an excuse to get around the truths laid out in the bible doesn't work. In fact lots of people do wrong things in the name of love. Just because the word 'love' is used doesn't make wrong things acceptable, nor does it make truth less valid.
 
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Timmaayyyy

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Pray and ask the lord what he wants you to do. You probably know the answer lol, but if you feel like its wrong then it's probably best you don't go ahead with the relationship. Just think if she is going to bring you closer to the lord or away?
 
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David234 said:
Love is love, God seeks to unite us as people. Anyone on hear telling you otherwise is sticking to petty dogma over the actual message of the Bible
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"Do you think that I have come to give peace on earth? No, I tell you, but rather division.For from now on in one house there will be five divided, three against two and two against three.They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law." - Luke 12:51-53

This is the actual message of the Bible. There will be division over this. Unity comes through compromise, which is the enemy of absolute goodness and truth.
 
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Sometimes what people love in us, what attracts them, is the spirit of God in us, because they're thirsty for HIM and are drawn to us like wounded souls to a physician. It is very important to put ourselves out of the way, in order for the Lord to use us as vessels and minister salvation to that person. Ego must totally die and Jesus alone must have freedom to operate.

I encourage you, my dear, to become obsessed with her salvation, to fast and wail and plead for her to know the Savior. If you win her to the kingdom, you will have shown her the greatest love there is. Try to ignore any romantic aspect and put her salvation as your number one priority.

See her love for you as a great opportunity to "trap" her lovingly into the arms of the Lord Himself, and as you do that, the Lord reminds you that when you seek first His kingdom and righteousness, then all other things shall be added unto you.

God loves people so much, He yearns so intensely to save them, that He will use anything about us to draw the lost unto Him.

God bless.
 
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