Is this a prophetic dream?

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Cup97cake

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So I am 17 years old and I have not had a boyfriend in an really long time. And there is the pastors son at oor church who is really cute. Like really cute. He had hhad a few girl friends..but his last one I had actually had a dream that they had broken up. And I could tell that he was sad, just never had the guts to ask if he was okay. (I barley talk to him). Then I had like 3 other dreams...and him and I were dating..The dreams were really real..like color and like I was actually there. I don't have a crush on him. So that is why I don't know if that dream means anything. And he has been flirting with me...and has been sending me pictures on snap chat. But he is also very friendly. But he was leading worship today...and I felt attracted to him when I saw him praising God. Then I had saw him later and i got butterflies and ignored him when ever he would look at me. But I want to know if God is trying to tell me something or if this is my imagination...
 
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Ugly

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Why not ask God rather than a bunch of strangers whose credibility you can't verify?
Personally, i doubt it means anything. I've had dreams that vivid and they're just that, dreams.
Best way to handle this idea is just set it aside and pray about it. If it's God, HE will reveal it, not random internet people who are going to use their own personal beliefs to affect their answer.

But, seriously, you're 17 and haven't had a boyfriend in a 'really long time'?
 
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Angel173

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Im 17 too and have had many dreams like that and nothing became of them. Its probably just the fact that you like him. Youd know if it was God.
 
breno785au

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So is this the guy you wanna marry?

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now watch em run :p lol
 
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Taith

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Ugly said:
Why not ask God rather than a bunch of strangers whose credibility you can't verify?
Personally, i doubt it means anything. I've had dreams that vivid and they're just that, dreams.
Best way to handle this idea is just set it aside and pray about it. If it's God, HE will reveal it, not random internet people who are going to use their own personal beliefs to affect their answer.

But, seriously, you're 17 and haven't had a boyfriend in a 'really long time'?
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Agreed.

Now if these dreams mean anything, I doubt any of us will know. None of us are modern "Josephs". Your best bet is to take it to God.

To be honest, this is what I see in you.
You like a boy, even if you do not want to admit it. And due to you liking him, you have been thinking about him. Which in turn influanced your dreams regarding him. And you want those dreams to be from God so that you can move on this boy. I understand that, everyone wants to have a for sure thing from God.
You have come on here hoping that someone will say "Yes! They mean that you are supposed to go for this boy!". You want it now, even if you didn't come here with that intent. You need an answer from God, not from man (or woman...). One of the most common ways (at least to me) that God answers us, is by telling us to wait. Which is the hardest answer for us. I say you wait and pray about it.
How about you seek God's will, instead of seeking His blessings on your will?
I am not saying that this is not meant to be, maybe God did put it in your heart. But you are still young, I suggest you wait. I am 18 and I have never had a girlfriend. It is hard to wait, but it is sometimes best to.

As I said, these dreams may mean something, or they might not. You need to take it to the Lord and see what He has to say about it.

God bless ya!
 
lil_christian

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Cup97cake said:
So I am 17 years old and I have not had a boyfriend in an really long time. And there is the pastors son at oor church who is really cute. Like really cute. He had hhad a few girl friends..but his last one I had actually had a dream that they had broken up. And I could tell that he was sad, just never had the guts to ask if he was okay. (I barley talk to him). Then I had like 3 other dreams...and him and I were dating..The dreams were really real..like color and like I was actually there. I don't have a crush on him. So that is why I don't know if that dream means anything. And he has been flirting with me...and has been sending me pictures on snap chat. But he is also very friendly. But he was leading worship today...and I felt attracted to him when I saw him praising God. Then I had saw him later and i got butterflies and ignored him when ever he would look at me. But I want to know if God is trying to tell me something or if this is my imagination...
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As you might already know from previous boyfriend(s), relationships are MESSY. Very very messy. Now this isn't experience of my own. It's just what I've seen watching on the sidelines while everyone plays this huge dating game. I have never had a boyfriend, I don't TRY to get a boyfriend (my everyday attire, church or no church, is jeans and a t-shirt. And I'm up on the praise team at church).

I would not do much about it at this time because honestly, they're just feelings. That's all they're going to be in the life of a teenager. You've probably seen it yourself. Guy gets girl (or the other way around), they're all "I love you so much!" and "My boyfriend/girlfriend is the best, they do this and that for me. :)" THEN as soon as the drama starts happening....whooo. That's where it gets messy. They start fighting, and because they're fighting they've lost whatever they've felt for one another.

To be completely honest, I would stay away from relationships until after high school. You more than likely only have one more year of high school (unless you're like me and already graduated because you skipped a grade).
 
ronnie2796

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I'm going to be completely hypocritical here.

Teenagers are so cute,..With their relationships, and being confused about things. Just adorable.

Meanwhile I'm trying to figure out what my guy friend meant in his last message -_-

Can I be old now?
 
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