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Larita

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I'm married and my husband don't believe in god. He is European He is ateos and talk against god all the time knowing I'm christian and I believe i come along a christian family my mom taught me everything books and study of bible since little and how to act with people once she told me getting out of the world will be dangerous and here Iam as brave as Iam I'm doing it all by miself with a lot of problems and dealing with people.He even doesn't work but my love for my husband is so strong. I want to help him feel like being rude is not gnna work. He just don't see things as I see it. I want a change for me and him. But I feel like god is not including him.
 
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Ugly

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Not sure why you're asking for marriage advice in the teen section.

But, basically, what you're saying is you were a Christian who married a non-Christian and now you're unhappy with it. Well, unless your husband decides to leave, cheats on you or abuses you you're stuck. This is a possible consequence of marrying someone who isn't Christian.
Though this has nothing to do with 'God not including him', but rather your husband refusing God. Don't confuse the two.
Now that you've made a choice to marry a non-Christian you want to change who your husband is and blame God for not including your husband. Doesn't work that way. You made a choice to marry and now you have to live with it. You can't blame God. God didn't make you marry him, you chose to. You can't expect your husband to change, either. You can pray about it, but not expect that he needs to change into what you want him to be. You should've chosen to marry someone who already was what you wanted.
Basically you've put yourself in this situation and have no one to blame for it, but yourself. Now you're stuck unless he does those things i mentioned above.
 
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Jorina

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When i was reading i found the reply of Ugly a bit harsh, but i have to agree with him. You did marry someone who doesnt believe in God. Has his behaviour really changed so much since you married? Or is it you who has changed? But anyway i replied because i wanted to shine a little more light on a possitive thing Ugly said: you can pray about it. If you believe in the Lord then you know that He wants you to come to Him with everything thats on your mind, everything thats troubling your heart. Tell Him about this. Ask forgiveness for marrying a man who doesnt believe in God. And pray for your husband. Pray for him everyday. Ask the Lord how you can be a living example of the great live that we have because we live with God. Because we have Jesus living in our hearts. Read your Bible, look up those verses about being kind, to love people. Go searching for the Lord's promises and go with these promises to the Lord in prayer. He is listening! You can pray about it, and a prayer is a very powerful thing. Well, not exactly the prayer, but the One we pray to. Our Lord, our Heavenly Father is the Lord Almighty. So pray to the Lord and show your husband the reasons why he should be feeling jealous for you having a relationship with the Lord. But above all, accept that this is a situation that you've gotten yourself into. Accept that the Lord does not have to help you out. And accept that the Lord is the only One who cán help you out.
 

blue_ladybug

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​I agree with Ugly and Jorina..it's not that God isn't including your husband..Your husband isn't including God!! As Ugly said, this can happen when a believer marries a non-believer. Just keep trusting in God and pray for your husband.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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1 Tim 2

I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people—
2 for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.
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This is good, and pleases God our Savior,
4 who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.

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For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus,
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who gave himself as a ransom for all people. This has now been witnessed to at the proper time.
7And for this purpose I was appointed a herald and an apostle—I am telling the truth,
I am not lying—and a true and faithful teacher of the Gentiles.