Being single is really boring but I guess God has something greater for me :)

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Ugly

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Of course if you're worried about it, then you must have your priorities wrong.
 

ChandlerFan

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Of course if you're worried about it, then you must have your priorities wrong.
And you just might be human. ;)

It's okay to deal with worry, but when you do, just don't let yourself stay there. Give it to God and actively choose to trust in His good and perfect plan for you. You seem like you're doing pretty well with that, Churchgirl :)
 
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Sirsoupy4

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This is going to be a long story, but READ THIS!! I understand what your saying. Kinda makes you feel like why God didn't just send my ONE right away, but too often we forget to have patience and not to worry about that. I honestly do believe that the main reason why we all worry including myself about relationships is because God gave us choice and at times we miss or choose not to follow his plan. So we think that we'll miss out on God's plan for our love life. So we spend more time searching.But the truth of matter is if we spent as much time chasing after the opposite sex´s heart chasing after God's heart then we wouldn't worry about getting out of God's plan for our love life. I know that last part was harsh. It's rough even to me, one thing to do is to spend time with friends going out; clears your mind from relationships.
 
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ELECT

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“A woman’s heart should be so lost in God, that a man must seek Him to find her.”

[h=1]“A man’s heart should be so lost in God, that a woman must seek Him to find him.”[/h]
 
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cjordan38

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Its great being single. A single person can get all the God they want. A person who is married or has children has to now find time for God. Its a third party thing
 

djness

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Its great being single. A single person can get all the God they want. A person who is married or has children has to now find time for God. Its a third party thing
I'm getting a whole lot of God looking at my walls 18 hours a day.
 
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ELECT

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God made Adam alone first for a purpose

If He wanted He could have made both of them together
 
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ELECT

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Its great being single. A single person can get all the God they want. A person who is married or has children has to now find time for God. Its a third party thing
Some people are single and still have to find time for God
 
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cjordan38

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Some people are single and still have to find time for God
But see when your single there's nobody else you have to please but God. All the spare time you have you can pray.
 
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ELECT

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But see when your single there's nobody else you have to please but God. All the spare time you have you can pray.
Thats true to a point yet not many do it even if they are single

some single are preoccupied school work etc
 
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cjordan38

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Thats true to a point yet not many do it even if they are single

some single are preoccupied school work etc
That is so true. But if they give more time to God, they will explode with the Holy Ghost
 
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Tiffins

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You should consider a little more sleep...
 
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faithisthyvictory

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I'm a very shy person, I wish I could do that
churchgirl just make yourself available to God's ministry and experience how God develops your personality. before i was too inferior and very shy because of my disability but when i surrendered my life to God and commit myself to Him i experienced how His grace creates overwhelming changes in my life. being in a relationship with opposite sex isn't an antidote it's our growing relationship with the Lord.
 

jandian

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When married life becomes the norm, you may also find it boring.
Boring is really up to you.
 
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AbbeyJoy

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Sometimes it is and sometimes not. For me most of the time not. I can do what I want go where I want without having to worry about my hubby, I can make plans I can go places so yeah lol. Some is boring and depressant at time when when you hang out with friends who is with their significant other.. but all its still good :)
 
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Maidenhead_Guy

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#39
Know exactly what you mean
 
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childOFgod94

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I don't find being single boring, I actually find it more exciting. I get to do the things *I* want to do, without having someone discourage me from doing the things I love. Or having her drag me along to some family social event or theme park that I didn't want to go to anyways. I get to be more adventurous, take risks (sometimes dangerous - within reason), and live life for God. I won't let another person define how exciting my life is. :) Relationships aren't as gooy and gushy as what the media makes them out to be. You're seriously not missing much.
Tru, but after being single so long it starts to get emotionally stressful. God understood that as man it wasn't good for us to be alone all the time. That eventually we would need some companionship. But I get what your saying 2 lol