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asamanthinketh

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I have had so many traumatic things happen to me thus far and i need healing and spiritual renewal in my life. I am at the mercy of my mother. She has decided to give up on me and I have no one else in the world willing to see me meet my potential. I am not ready to die. But if someone doesn't step out of their selfishness and help heal what they have harmed then surely i'm not going to live a real life.

I have been molested and subjected to sexual images that i should not have been subjected to. I have been physically abused.

I worked hard to gain some semblance of a normal life and through the hands of men and those who i am now reliant upon they destroyed it and took it away.

I have already lived with this pain for the last 5-6 years and i don't think i can bear it another year when it would be so easy for them to lift a hand and heal

Where is the God of heaven and earth? Where is his healing power? Where is his listening ear? What happen to his love surround the whole earth and sustaining us.

If I die at an early age it is going to be because of the harm and lack of understanding of those closest to me. But I don't want that to happen and this is not God's will. The Lord intends for our lives to be full and long.

But when I reach out for help, saying exactly what i need to survive, I am ignored. Like I am the scum of the earth and an insect gets better care taking than me.

My mother has lied to me and to those around her and it has destroyed my life.

With one streak of faith she could save my life. But at this moment her decision said Ina your life is not valueable enough to me to help you. She knows I need her. She knows it with all her being. She cannot not know it, but she is choosing to disobey God and kill someone else.
 
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Belgian_Pilot

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Hi,

It looks like your life is a lot more difficult then mine, so I don't think I can imagine your problems.

If you have a Bible, try reading the book of Job. It might give you some comfort and answer a few questions. God gave Satan permission to do whatever he wanted to do with Job (but he was not allowed to kill him). Job lost about everything a man can lose in his life. He didn't lose his faith, and trusted God trough his misery. In the end, God shows us that this is the clue to be a part of His glory.

Final thought (I do not mean to judge you, I just try to give you some comfort):

We can all be pretty sure that God DOES understand your problems. His son went trough the greatest misery possible. No man suffered more than Jesus. He promised us God would never give us more problems than we can handle! Even if it looks sometimes too much.

God bless you!
 
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Wug

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Um, do you ever read the replies to your posts? And if so, do you ever heed the advice? the advice is always. 1. Get saved, 2. Pray, 3. Forgive, 4. Dont' rely on man, but on God.

Also, understand that if it's legit, your salvation can never be lost or "stolen".

"They can kill us, they can rape us, but they can never break us"
 
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songster

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asamanthinketh said:
I have had so many traumatic things happen to me thus far and i need healing and spiritual renewal in my life. I am at the mercy of my mother. She has decided to give up on me and I have no one else in the world willing to see me meet my potential. I am not ready to die. But if someone doesn't step out of their selfishness and help heal what they have harmed then surely i'm not going to live a real life.

I have been molested and subjected to sexual images that i should not have been subjected to. I have been physically abused.

I worked hard to gain some semblance of a normal life and through the hands of men and those who i am now reliant upon they destroyed it and took it away.

I have already lived with this pain for the last 5-6 years and i don't think i can bear it another year when it would be so easy for them to lift a hand and heal

Where is the God of heaven and earth? Where is his healing power? Where is his listening ear? What happen to his love surround the whole earth and sustaining us.

If I die at an early age it is going to be because of the harm and lack of understanding of those closest to me. But I don't want that to happen and this is not God's will. The Lord intends for our lives to be full and long.

But when I reach out for help, saying exactly what i need to survive, I am ignored. Like I am the scum of the earth and an insect gets better care taking than me.

My mother has lied to me and to those around her and it has destroyed my life.

With one streak of faith she could save my life. But at this moment her decision said Ina your life is not valueable enough to me to help you. She knows I need her. She knows it with all her being. She cannot not know it, but she is choosing to disobey God and kill someone else.
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You are in need of counseling. I strongly suggest contacting a counseling organization which deals with victims of past sexual abuse. Whether you find a local listing on the internet, or are referred by your Pastor, I believe it will help you to regain some sense of stability and reality, in your life.

Please understand that nothing will change unless you begin to take the necessary steps. Having someone pray for you is helpful, but it is unlikely that you will receive complete restoration from God in one day. If you believe that your mother can somehow fix you, you've been mislead. Find a counseling organization and give yourself a fresh start.
 
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sunshine_debbie

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songster said:
You are in need of counseling. I strongly suggest contacting a counseling organization which deals with victims of past sexual abuse. Whether you find a local listing on the internet, or are referred by your Pastor, I believe it will help you to regain some sense of stability and reality, in your life.

Please understand that nothing will change unless you begin to take the necessary steps. Having someone pray for you is helpful, but it is unlikely that you will receive complete restoration from God in one day. If you believe that your mother can somehow fix you, you've been mislead. Find a counseling organization and give yourself a fresh start.[/quote


Several people have TRIED to help her. If I could, I would give her numbers to call that could help her. She needs PROFESSIONAL help. And I dont think that she will listen when we tell her that. SO instead now when I come on here, I just pray for her. Its all I can do.

Debbie
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songster

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Several people have TRIED to help her. If I could, I would give her numbers to call that could help her. She needs PROFESSIONAL help. And I dont think that she will listen when we tell her that. SO instead now when I come on here, I just pray for her. Its all I can do.

Debbie[/quote]

Yes, and I'm sure some have prayed for her. I agree. phone numbers would be helpful, but I believe that it is important for her to begin to take mature steps, which will require her to make an investment of time into her own restoration.

She has apparently suffered under the hands of someone who has been extraordinarily controlling which has created an inordinate dependence which has apparently confused her sense of reality. The desperation to escape is hindered by the illusion that she cannot live without her mothers opinions, guidance, care and rescuing. She has never alluded to any physical inability, so I'm assuming she is free to investigate counseling possibilites. I personally believe that she must make mature decisions at this point, taking responsibility for her own welfare.

As she does this, I believe that God will use others in the restorative process. At present she is somewhat isolated which produces self destructive thoughts and a distorted self-image.
 
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