Awhile ago after my father passed away, my mother ask to write something in favorite of the person who basicalyl killed my father. My father was one of those people who was abusive and heavy drinker, as well as the person who he was with the women who killed him. They weren't sure if it was self-defense, drunk stupidity, etc... but I simply said I wish my father was there more for us and the side of my father's family sorta of disowned us stop talking to us besides my own cousin, but with everything said, my own other cousin decide to send a friend request to my facebook, I ignored and deleted, because I do not like the way he acts and behaves. Then today my one father's only brother decide to send me a friend request?! Just out of the random blue, I want to say something, but I don't know if I should speak my mind, or just bite my tongue and suffer?