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Like the title says. Not to toot my own horn, but I am not an ugly or out of shape person, the complete opposite actually. I have moved around a bunch and never made any lasting friends (5 different high schools in multiple states) and I am a introverted person. I'm currently going to college for computer science/programming which is a very male dominated field of work so I never meet girls at school. And my church is very small, less than 35 people, and im the second youngest person attending so there's no girls there either (I honestly want a relationship with a Christian woman). It does kinda make me feel like a loser at times seeing all my friends with girlfriends and me keeping to myself I've never had one.
Besides asking if this is normal, should I just wait until after college to start looking for a girlfriend/wife? Should I just remain abstinent as I've been for the past 3 years?
Also, as an FYI, I do not have any parents/parentals, or family, and have been living on my own for years. Could these feelings be codependency or just my teenage, "urges?" I feel like having a girlfriend/wife kills two birds with one stone - friendship (the most important), and sex.
Besides asking if this is normal, should I just wait until after college to start looking for a girlfriend/wife? Should I just remain abstinent as I've been for the past 3 years?
Also, as an FYI, I do not have any parents/parentals, or family, and have been living on my own for years. Could these feelings be codependency or just my teenage, "urges?" I feel like having a girlfriend/wife kills two birds with one stone - friendship (the most important), and sex.