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I don't usually write in the forum but i really need advice right now.
see my sister is getting married in april and even before her engagement she'd been changing but since she got engaged it seems like she doesn't care about anyones feelings and only what she wants. she's really hurting my mom by not letting or including her in the wedding plans and if she does it's just to give her orders and what she needs to pay for. it's really hurting my mom and she's tried to gently bring it up to my sister but my sister just got upset and didn't listen to her at all. she's also hurting alot of us around her it's gotten to the point that the only reason we still talk to her is because she's family otherwise we'd have stopped. she's not talking to us also unless it's just to give us a job or to tell us when we need to meet her about something. she's also breaking promises constantly.
I want to talk to her about how she's treating my mom and the rest of us but my mom keeps saying I shouldn't. it hurts how she's treating me but i really can't stand how she's treating my mom. it really hurts to see how hurt and upset my mom is about all this and i know she's dreamed about these days since us girls were born.
should i talk to her about this even though my mom doesn't want me to? and if so what's the best way to approach it do u think?
thankyou for reading this.
see my sister is getting married in april and even before her engagement she'd been changing but since she got engaged it seems like she doesn't care about anyones feelings and only what she wants. she's really hurting my mom by not letting or including her in the wedding plans and if she does it's just to give her orders and what she needs to pay for. it's really hurting my mom and she's tried to gently bring it up to my sister but my sister just got upset and didn't listen to her at all. she's also hurting alot of us around her it's gotten to the point that the only reason we still talk to her is because she's family otherwise we'd have stopped. she's not talking to us also unless it's just to give us a job or to tell us when we need to meet her about something. she's also breaking promises constantly.
I want to talk to her about how she's treating my mom and the rest of us but my mom keeps saying I shouldn't. it hurts how she's treating me but i really can't stand how she's treating my mom. it really hurts to see how hurt and upset my mom is about all this and i know she's dreamed about these days since us girls were born.
should i talk to her about this even though my mom doesn't want me to? and if so what's the best way to approach it do u think?
thankyou for reading this.