Marrying a non-Christian, What does the Bible say?

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Voke

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To do or not to do?
 

jb

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Marrying a non-Christian, What does the Bible say?
2Cor 6v14:

" Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
 

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The bible says not to become unequally yoked. It does not say that it is a sin but may be unwise to do so. Personally, I would advise against it. Welcome to CC.
 
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To do or not to do?
Not to do. God doesn't beat around the bush, and so neither should we.

2 Corinthians 6:14-18
Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? [SUP]15 [/SUP]What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever? [SUP]16 [/SUP]And what union can there be between God’s temple and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God said:“I will live in them
and walk among them.
I will be their God,
and they will be my people.
[SUP]17 [/SUP]Therefore, come out from among unbelievers,
and separate yourselves from them, says the Lord.
Don’t touch their filthy things,
and I will welcome you.
[SUP]18 [/SUP]And I will be your Father,
and you will be my sons and daughters,
says the Lord Almighty.”


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Tintin

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To do or not to do?
The Bible says No to marrying non-Christians. It's also wise not to marry a Christian who is very young in the faith if you are much further along in your walk with Jesus. So being equally yolked, I think, refers to both.
 
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The Bible says No to marrying non-Christians. It's also wise not to marry a Christian who is very young in the faith if you are much further along in your walk with Jesus. So being equally yolked, I think, refers to both.
Absolutely!
 

Calmador

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To do or not to do?
1 Corinthians 7:39 A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.

^^^ I think this verse is the clearest I found that answers your question.

Christians should always marry Christians.
 
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It would be highly worth the effort to seek GOD's ideal soul mate for you! I started praying for mine as a teenager and inside of three years, I met the one in whom GOD planned for me! We celebrate our 40th anniversary this year!
 
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Voke

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I couldn't agree more with all the comments. I firmly opposed it when someone brought an argument about "we are all serving the same god''. It's good to hear from Christians who do not compromise the standards set in the Bible.
 
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Voke

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The bible says not to become unequally yoked. It does not say that it is a sin but may be unwise to do so. Personally, I would advise against it. Welcome to CC.
Thank you for the welcome. I found this site when I was looking for something profitable to do whenever I have time to get on the Internet and it has been good.
 
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Nuns_n_roses

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It only leads to trouble!

I think of it like this... when we marry and make love we become "one flesh" with our spouse. As a result you want to be on the same page on very important issues like religion with them.

Do NOT marry a nonbeliever, but if you find yourself married to someone who isn't a Christian or decides to convert in the duration of the marriage, it is not a lawful reason to divorce.

Relationships can easily become an idol (aka something we invest our hearts in more than God) which is one reason it is important to obey this commandment. So we have to guard our hearts to prevent this.

Remember, no earthly relationship is more important than one with our heavenly Father. :) Keep this in mind, and you will have a happy, healthy, long lasting relationship/marriage.