For those who are single and following God I am not bashing you, God gives different strengths to different people but this guilt tripping people into "you should be seeking God alone" is just too much and really lame we're humans for goodness sake we were created to interact with others in a godly way and seek God both can be done it is not a mutually exclusive one or the other....
Oh my gosh, I totally agree with you! And sometimes I feel like it's harder for women because we were initially created to be a companion. Not our only purpose obviously, but the main reason God created Eve.
Cncoffee, I totally feel you girl! I have had three relationships in my life, and sadly never to a good christian guy. I'm so tired of it, I want someone who will put God first, even before me, but the christian guys I know don't seem to know much about dating. And I'm not just saying that because none of them have taken interest in me, I say that as a general observation. Like there are a lot of young adults in their late twenties at my church who are all still single and I'm like "dude, is there really no one you're interested in???" What's even more frustrating is how I get noticed by non christian guys, and if that is what I wanted I could definitely be in a relationship, but I know it would never work out because our values are way different. So I end up being lonely and wondering what I've done wrong.
Basically I don't have any advice for you, sadly, but I just wanted you to know that you are not alone lol.