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Hello all,
I am new to Christian Chat, to start off, I was raised in a Christian family and was born again in middle school. My significant other is fairly new to the faith, and became born again right before University. We have since dated for about three years, and yes we struggled very much. But we always turned back to God to repent and have a relationship that would be pleasing to God. We are serious about getting married, and after three years of dating, I felt that we were ready.
Last month, everything was perfect, she left for Korea with her mother to visit the country for a month. She cheated on me, I'm not sure to what extent, but she confessed to me when she returned to America. She lied to me ever since she arrived, since she explained to me that she had no internet connection and no way to speak to me, but she was doing this with a new guy she met there. I found out that she dated him for the entire month. Of course, i was very upset and heartbroken, but I still cared deeply for her and I do love her. I wanted to work on the relationship but she wants space and time because she feels broken and lost.
What do you suggest i do? Should i keep trying to work on the relationship, or is this where it ends? I asked if she still wanted to work on our relationship, and she doesnt know, she doesn't even know if she wants to be with me anymore. What do i do?
I am new to Christian Chat, to start off, I was raised in a Christian family and was born again in middle school. My significant other is fairly new to the faith, and became born again right before University. We have since dated for about three years, and yes we struggled very much. But we always turned back to God to repent and have a relationship that would be pleasing to God. We are serious about getting married, and after three years of dating, I felt that we were ready.
Last month, everything was perfect, she left for Korea with her mother to visit the country for a month. She cheated on me, I'm not sure to what extent, but she confessed to me when she returned to America. She lied to me ever since she arrived, since she explained to me that she had no internet connection and no way to speak to me, but she was doing this with a new guy she met there. I found out that she dated him for the entire month. Of course, i was very upset and heartbroken, but I still cared deeply for her and I do love her. I wanted to work on the relationship but she wants space and time because she feels broken and lost.
What do you suggest i do? Should i keep trying to work on the relationship, or is this where it ends? I asked if she still wanted to work on our relationship, and she doesnt know, she doesn't even know if she wants to be with me anymore. What do i do?