Okay I've only been on here a few months but it doesn't matter what I have to say is real! God doesn't define us by sin our weaknesses he defines us by who we are in him! Born again strong and amazing people who can overcome anything. So never let anything weather its a romantic relationship a friendship a family relationship a work situation or even the perfection that us humans make up as being what the Christian life really is define you! None of that defines you! The one thing that does define you is that 2000 years ago a man named Jesus Christ died for you and me so that sin would be dead and heaven would be open to all humans! I have been redeemed and so have you! Never ever forget that!!!