Not the way I planned

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sportygirl

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I've come to a lot of realizations lately, and one of them is my plans and God's plans arent necessarily the same sometimes, which is fine...I know god's plan is always better! The thing is I don't know what to do in this particular situation. I'm planning a pre-work/school trip with some friends (inclduing the guy im kind of interested in). It was a grou p of five of us in the original plan but since its an amusement park the two of us planning it agreeded an even number is better. So as the summers continued I've talked to two of the original five, and both still want to do it, one im not close to so idk if he wants to go, and the girl hadnt written me back till today. Well since I didnt want to be the only girl I also mentioned it to another friend, so it would be four of us. But now I dont know what to do, I feel like maybe I'm being selfish wanting it to be an even number so bad. I know it will be fun either way, it's just not how I envisioned it in the first place....Part of me is hoping one of them just cant go to make it easier, but thats unfair. I want to envision it newly but Im struggling. And I'm not sure how to handle the situation??? Any advise would be welcome!
 
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HawaiianSnow

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I think worrying and stressing over it is unnecessary. All you're doing is draining your emotional energy. An even number of people may be desirable, but it's really no big deal if it turns out to be odd. What you should be doing is focusing on the actual trip itself and how much fun you'll have.
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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Sporty:

I have been to tons of amusment parks and let me say this is not an issue. There are five people in my family and we always took turns sitting next to eachother! This is a great way for you to get closer to the person you dont know so well and develop new relationships. Also there are lots of rides where they can sit 3 people at a "station". You are worrying about nothing. Go and enjoy!
 
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