In Love With A Wrong Person??

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shane_henney

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Dear Friends,
Finding a perfect life partner sometime will make you felt a bit frustrated! Sometime, when you about to start a new relationship, you may feel so happy and seems that you found your truly partner that you think can be your very best life partner. He/ she really make your life cheerful and colorful.

But, when both of you start to arguing on something that will really need commitment and real serious opinion; maybe about relationship, career, money matter, even Christianity life..You and he/ she NEVER meet any EQUAL decision about the matters.!

And this make you thinking about : Do I in LOVE with a wrong person? Why we never have the same commitment in whatever we do? Why he/ she always denied my opinion? Why he/she never understand me?

THOUSAND of questions will appear in our mind. This will make you confuse!

So, what should you do if this matter really happened in your life??
 
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karine___

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i believe couples must share goals , have one mind too, after all they are going to be one flesh when they marry , they are called to serve God together and if there are disagreements it turns difficult . sometimes we are already emotionally attached to a person when the differences start showing up but God has a plan for u and it's not to harm u , or make u confused . pray for discernment and He will show u the best decision to make and will never disappoint u :)
 
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Ugly

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There is a release of a certain chemical in the brain, within the first 3-6 months of a relationship. This is what makes you giddy & lovey dovey. After that period of time that 'happy chemical' stops being produced. Thats when you start seeing the true person & any negatives about them, & they the same for you. If after the chemical stops being produced you find yourself often at odds with the person your relationship was just based on the 'high' of the chemical, not in anything deeper. Its when that chemical wears off that you still desire to compromise & care that you have evidence of something deeper.
 
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