Help with uncle?

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guilbautedsookie

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My uncle has soooo much lust for this friend of mine and when he had a Christian girlfriend he was okay but still he was philandering and she got jealous they split up. Well I don't know the real thing but I was chatting with my friend and my uncle was chatting with her and she asked me why he was chatting with her. I chatted with my uncle and he sooooo wanted to have her he even asked me to intercede for her.

I don't know what to say well I said "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak" but I think he had a wrong idea about it LOL. I don't wanna be rude to him but I don't want to tolerate his aggressiveness and you know, thirst for girls, and yes it's in some way idolatry. Plus my friend is really not yet at all willing to be committed.

Any words I might share to him? I don't wanna rebuke him... maybe just give words that will snap him back LOL :)
 
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Ugly

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'I don't want to be rude to him' and therein lies the problem. Your concern for politeness is overshadowing your need to be honest and upright. If i understand right you uncle wants you to help him meet this girl so he can sleep with her. And rather than you taking a stand and saying 'no, i will not do that' and risk him not liking it you're trying to find a way to beat around the bush and at the same time change his mind. Well, it's not likely you're going to change his mind. You're better off manning up and speaking your mind and being honest and letting him know you will not be helping him and that you think what he's doing in wrong. Stop worrying about polite. He's not being polite to you, or in regards to the girl, either.
 
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guilbautedsookie

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Wow thank you for that advice :D
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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besides Jesus didn't ask us to be polite. He stepped on a WHOLE lot of toes. but he saved many by telling them the truth. not just what they wanted to hear.
 
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Tobby17

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Call him a Viper, that's what JESUS called the Pharisees..:p

By the way guilbautedsookie, You might need a Gun, just incase he gets too violent at you for calling him that :D:D::D...
 
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guilbautedsookie

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Just met him... I guess he's let it go LOL
 
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Stuey

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Good advice, Ugly but accurate.

Bahahahaha - see what I did there? :D
 
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