I Adore The Lord But I Feel I Am Useless And Unwanted By Him

[Diamond_Dean]

Please someone talk to me about this, it has been making me sad for a few weeks or so. I get told everyday by my so called friends and family and even my peers that I am Worthless Please Help Me

 

[rainacorn]

So why do you feel worthless and unwanted by Him? God isn't telling you that, the jerks in your life are.

 

[koolcas]

you know i think almost everyone goes thru this period when they feel like they're not worth it. but let me tell u, You are very very very special. remember we're fighting a spiritual battle? this is one of the ways satan uses to paralyze us and make us feel useless. dont believe it..its a lie. trust me. i felt like that too. but its a lie. dont you know who you are. You are His.

 

[Ugly]

God can, and will use whatever He wills. You included. Remember though, sometimes we go through times of growth, and sometimes we go through times of being used. Maybe now is a time to focus on your walk and in getting to know your place in Him and less on 'doing'.

 

[lonewolf]

Please someone talk to me about this, it has been making me sad for a few weeks or so. I get told everyday by my so called friends and family and even my peers that I am Worthless Please Help Me

You're not worthless. People who say you are worthless are STUPID!

 

[simplyme_bekah]

ahhh you just gotta pray and ask God to show you his truth and ask him to help you know the devils lies for what they are. There are moments when I feel worthless also. But then God sends me a heart in some way (((bubbles in my bath, in the sugar bowl, in the coffee creamer I pour in my coffee cup, a rock in the lake in the shape of a heart, a red heart jewel I found buried deep in the sand at the glass beach in Fort Brag, Ca, a cloud in the sky in the shape of a heart)))We all do. The devil is a jerk. He hates us and the closer we try to get to God the more he tries to divert us. Its a lie and a trick. Don't believe it instead laugh about it and keep on reaching for our Jesus. And remember a person that says that stuff is reflecting what they feel about themselves onto you. You have a choice to believe what they say or to simply not believe it and take that opportunity to bow your head in prayer for them. None of us are worthless because God doesn't make worthless things. Each and every living thing on this earth was created with a purpose.

 

[surrender2God]

Brother, you are what God says you and you can do and have what the Bible says you can have.


Romans 8
37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Philippians 4:19 I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me.
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD.
Revelation 12:11
And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.

 

[Bluebutterflygirl]

You may want to dig your heart and find something you couldn't forget yourself for. Shame and guilt sometimes lead to such thoughts. But God is more than that remember? His love and mercy are huge.
God is love. He won't want to throw you away.
Believe in that.
We love you.
Stay strong and courageous. Read more Bible and talk to Him and you will be free.

 

[jkalyna]

Please someone talk to me about this, it has been making me sad for a few weeks or so. I get told everyday by my so called friends and family and even my peers that I am Worthless Please Help Me

BIG BAD WOLF. THIS IS THE EVIL IN DISQUISE. BEWARE, THE GREATEST BATTLE WAS WHEN JESUS GAVE HIS LIFE FOR US. TO ACCEPT HIM, WE BECOME BORN AGAIN, AND KNOW WHO OUR HEAVENLY FATHER IS. DON'T LISTEN TO THIS, AS THIS WILL EVENTUALLY, TAKE AWAY EVERY PIECE OF SELF ESTEEM IN YOU. OUR IDENITITY RESEMBLES OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN, TO SAY YOU ARE WORTHLESS, IS SATAN'S MOUTHPIECE IN YOUR EARS. " AVOID ALL APPEARANCES OF EVIL" PRAYER FOR DELIVERANCE, PSALM 91. ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO GUIDE YOU OUT OF THE WOLFS TERRITORY, THIS IS BAD REAL BAD, AND VERY BAD.

 

[chu_huifen]

Hi Diamond_dean

I think you must realize first about your identity. When we receive God personally and accept Him to be our savior, God change our identity from world identity become God identity, you have God's DNA in your life (1 John 3:9) and yea your life is worth it in His eyes, you're still His precious children. Satan is the father of liar and accuser. he will not stop charging and intimidate your life until you lose the identity that you are a child of God, a citizen of the Kingdom of God. Remember world offer and push you to please them and when you failed to please them, they will intimidate and said that you're useless and worthless. Wake up bro, we create not for to be people pleasure, we create to become God pleasure. You're still loved, worth, precious no matter how rude your life

God Bless

 

[Ugly]

You're not worthless. People who say you are worthless are STUPID!

So those people call him worthless. You call those people stupid. What makes you any different than them?

 

[NinJaGGS]

In order to be right, people seem to have to find someone (or something) who is wrong. This is a tendency of our fallen human nature. So, matching suit, we respond by hating, or judging, in order to reclaim control (power) This response is also not good.
People are confused, Jesus asked from the cross that God would forgive us humans, because we don't know what we do. It is absolutely ridiculous to tell anybody they are worthless. You are a precious child of God. That being said, it is also not appropriate for you to hate them, for after all, they don't know how they hurt you, they too are hurt by this and that in this fallen sinful world.
I think it would be very good for you to make excuses for them. Not that what they did was ok, but that what they did they did for very deep reasons and very deep troubles, realizing that is good. Being compassionate for the people who offend us is an action blessed by God.
One of our biggest problems is that we need to be right, the insane quest to be right never ends because people in and of themselves can never be right, God is Truth, he is always right.

 

[Diamond_Dean]

Thanks Everyone, I Felt Sad Because Of The Things They Would Say, I Thought Somehow That Is What God Thought Of Me
Poor, Worthless, Useless Those Things
So Again Thanks Guys

 

[mystdancer50]

I have decided that I really and truly love to be me. Most who look at my life would wonder why, I imagine, I would love to be me. I am not swimming in wealth or fame, I am not model material, I am single, living my life as best I can, in a world that values the wrong things and allows their lives to be robbed of true life.​

I love being me because I have Jesus Christ! Sometimes I can forget the wonder of belonging to the King of kings, but today, as I sat at my desk at work, I realized that I truly love being me.

I am beautiful and nothing can be said to change that. I find my worth in the eyes of the Beholder. I love my personality and the quirks that define me as ‘Julie’. I love the friends that truly love me for who I am, the ones that allow me to be me without feeling like I’ll be rejected should they come to really and truly know me.

I love my life, with my three dogs, my cat, my mom, my friends, my family, and my church. I love that I have a wonderful, attentive Savior that guards me and leads me, teaches and heals, strengthens and renews. I love that I have mediocre talent in art and photography and singing and above average talent in writing. I love that God has given me the gifts of leadership, teaching, and initiating that I can use to edify my church family.

I love that I can see myself differently now, that I can look in the mirror and see the beauty that lay sleeping for so long. I am sleeping beauty and the kiss of my Prince has awoken me at last!

I love that I have been offered a new chance at things that I had failed at before and that God makes it appear so effortless when I look back. I love how encouraged I feel when I think about my life, my future, my past, my dreams, my goals, and the promises my Beloved has whispered to me. I love that someday I will see all that He promised come to pass, despite my journeys through the valley of doubt and worry. I love that I can be confident and sure of my Beloved’s love for me, that it never lessens, that it never grows fickle or cold, that it never turns to indifference.

I love being me!

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[wwjd_kilden]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]My Child,

You may not know me,
but I know everything about you.
Psalm 139:1 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I know when you sit down and when you rise up. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 139:2[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am familiar with all your ways. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 139:3[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Matthew 10:29-31[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For you were made in my image. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Genesis 1:27[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In me you live and move and have your being.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Acts 17:28 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For you are my offspring. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Acts 17:28 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I knew you even before you were conceived. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 1:4-5 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I chose you when I planned creation. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Ephesians 1:11-12 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You were not a mistake,
for all your days are written in my book. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 139:15-16[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I determined the exact time of your birth
and where you would live. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Acts 17:26 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You are fearfully and wonderfully made. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 139:14 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I knit you together in your mother's womb. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 139:13 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And brought you forth on the day you were born. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 71:6[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I have been misrepresented
by those who don't know me.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
John 8:41-44[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am not distant and angry,
but am the complete expression of love. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
1 John 4:16 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
1 John 3:1 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Simply because you are my child
and I am your Father. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
1 John 3:1[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Matthew 7:11 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For I am the perfect father. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Matthew 5:48 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
James 1:17[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Matthew 6:31-33 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 29:11 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Because I love you with an everlasting love. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 31:3 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]My thoughts toward you are countless
as the sand on the seashore.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalms 139:17-18[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I rejoice over you with singing. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Zephaniah 3:17 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I will never stop doing good to you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 32:40 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For you are my treasured possession. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Exodus 19:5 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I desire to establish you
with all my heart and all my soul. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 32:41 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I want to show you great and marvelous things. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Jeremiah 33:3 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]If you seek me with all your heart,
you will find me. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Deuteronomy 4:29 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Delight in me and I will give you
the desires of your heart. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 37:4 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For it is I who gave you those desires. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Philippians 2:13 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am able to do more for you
than you could possibly imagine. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Ephesians 3:20 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For I am your greatest encourager. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am also the Father who comforts you
in all your troubles. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]When you are brokenhearted,
I am close to you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Psalm 34:18 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]As a shepherd carries a lamb,
I have carried you close to my heart. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Isaiah 40:11 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]One day I will wipe away
every tear from your eyes. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Revelation 21:3-4 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I'll take away all the pain
you have suffered on this earth.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Revelation 21:3-4 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am your Father, and I love you
even as I love my son, Jesus.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
John 17:23 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
John 17:26[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]He is the exact representation of my being. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Hebrews 1:3 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]He came to demonstrate that I am for you,
not against you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Romans 8:31 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And to tell you that I am not counting your sins.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
2 Corinthians 5:18-19[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
2 Corinthians 5:18-19 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]His death was the ultimate expression
of my love for you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
1 John 4:10[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I gave up everything I loved
that I might gain your love. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Romans 8:31-32 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]If you receive the gift of my son Jesus,
you receive me. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
1 John 2:23[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And nothing will ever separate you
from my love again.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Romans 8:38-39[/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Come home and I'll throw the biggest party
heaven has ever seen.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Luke 15:7 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I have always been Father,
and will always be Father.[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Ephesians 3:14-15 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]My question is…
Will you be my child? [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
John 1:12-13 [/FONT]

[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am waiting for you. [/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Luke 15:11-32[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
Love, Your Dad
[/FONT][FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Almighty God[/FONT]
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[clarkthompson]

sometimes we might feel this way but without God we are not anything but with God we are coheirs with Christ as believers we are part of God's family by marriage in Christ the Lord might be preparing to use you He might be making it where you only rely on God instead of others God loves you