Relationship Advice.. :/

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XxSuePandaxX

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Ok So i've dated this guy for a year..and we broke up like 3 weeks ago..But i've known him since 6th grade..we're still good friends..but should i move on? Or should i just keep hoping he'll come back.. His mom said that he'll come around but im just not sure..I mean I still love him but I just feel like hes done with me :.[ Why are guys so confusing :<.. Sigh..I just need some advices..:/ I think I should stop texting him first..since he need his space..I mean he is such a great person but i really miss him and I want our relationship to be better...and yes I've been praying and reading my bible. maybe I just need to be patient.. T_T. If anyone is reading this I hope you can give me some advice. :]
 
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Parker

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Look to God in what he would have you do. Seek God in every-day life. Make sure you are living out the life he has planned for you
 
PopClick

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XxSuePandaxX said:
I think I should stop texting him first..since he need his space..
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I agree. I think you should give him space. :) Try not to think about him too much, since it won't really do anything but make you sad. But keep up the praying and bible reading. God bless, I hope things turn out the way they should. :cool:
 
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Ugly

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XxSuePandaxX said:
Ok So i've dated this guy for a year..and we broke up like 3 weeks ago..But i've known him since 6th grade..we're still good friends..but should i move on? Or should i just keep hoping he'll come back.. His mom said that he'll come around but im just not sure..I mean I still love him but I just feel like hes done with me :.[ Why are guys so confusing :<.. Sigh..I just need some advices..:/ I think I should stop texting him first..since he need his space..I mean he is such a great person but i really miss him and I want our relationship to be better...and yes I've been praying and reading my bible. maybe I just need to be patient.. T_T. If anyone is reading this I hope you can give me some advice. :]
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I'm not getting whats so 'confusing'. You said 'we' broke up. And that YOU are the one having trouble moving on. So what makes 'him' so confusing? Nothing in your post indicates anything he's done as confusing, seems to me its just you're confused.

I suggest move on. I have been in more than one relationship where things ended, and then we got back, then end.. etc... and they have never worked out in the long run. Take it from someone who has wasted a lot of time and energy on these things, move on. Its mentally and emotionally healthier. You heal quicker this way rather than dragging it out for days.. weeks.. months of not healing, not growing, because you refuse to accept the facts. Accept the facts, accept the hurt, move on, live your life.
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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move on. ^_^ one of two things will happen. he'll see that you're moving on he'll either 1. be ok with it and just stay friends, or 2. realize that you're not going to be his back up plan and he IS loosing you and try to get back.

the way you said it seems like you wanna get back with him. well if you give his space you'll get your answer. hes going to decide that he doesn't want to be with you and do everything he can to get you back or he'll let you go and in that case you'll realize that its a waist to spend you time on someone who doesn't feel the same back to you.
 
TheKringledOne

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Have you asked him if he needed space or are you just assuming? Communication is very important. I have been in relationships that were on and off that lasted more than half a decade and it only really solidified when we learned how to communicate more effectively. I do not think you have given us enough information for us to give you much advice. You should try to assess the situation using as many details as possible while trying to learn about how to better communicate. I think you would be able to find out if you should move on by having a conversation with him when he is ready.

Remember that even if you decide to move on that it is still possible for a relationship to reform later when you don't expect it. Don't be afraid to move on, it doesn't mean you definitely lost the possibility of the relationship or friendship working, all it means is that it isn't on your mind. You probably shouldn't let it be a distraction from the rest of your life.
 
joshhuntnm

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could I recommend a book? Love must be Tough by James Dobson.
 
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CrazyChristianOtto

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Pay no attention to ugly suepanda he was just born that way.
put your troubles and your concerns in your masters hands he knows what and who is best for you
If they go out from us they were not of us
do not be yoked togethier with an ubleiver it's get's ugly belive me PLEASE
Also you look really young to me and please dont think this is trollish
but your mostly likey just feeling puppy love
your feeling like your world is ending and you cant go on with out this person
Which will soon disappear due to a chemical reaction in your brain strenghtehing your resolve to move on.
lololol isnt love a kick in the head????
 
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