sexually bonded together

[beautygirl]

Even if you don't have full intercourse but have done other things sexually (like heavy petting, dry humping, touching each other sexually etc etc) are you still bonded together somewhat in a way that you would be if you have intercourse? like would you feel that bond with the other person, strong feelings and would it be more difficult to break up and still have to see the person?



Also, from recent situations i feel it is better the refrain from all these things to form a better relationship with someone and really get to know them deep down and understand each other, i guess it would form a better relationship in the long run. I guess I know this is right but still feel i am being silly, probably because the desires are so strong and you really want to do these things.

 

[Jordache]

Beauty,
There is a bond with any sort of sexual "play". There are degrees, certainly, but those acts do create a bond. It's better to stay as far away as possible than to see how close to the boundary you can get without falling into the current. Yes, the desires are strong, and difficult to fight. That's the point of establishing boundaries. You stop yourself before you really have I think to hard about it. I've learned this the hard way, so I get it.

 

[olajide]

Yeah avoid unnecressary visitation and set rules, visit when his or her family re there, sit in a open n expose area whre people can seee u

 

[heirofChrist]

I hope you don't mind me asking beauty, are you born again?

 

[JGPS]

All physical contact forms bonds, closer contact forms stronger bonds. It's part of why traditionally a contract is bound with a handshake.

The more you do, the more you'll feel the bond. That's really all there is too it.

As for a better long run relationship, you should probably decide weather he is someone you want the long run with or not, if he is then more bonds are a good thing. If you are unsure then don't form more bonds.

 

[Ugly]

You say you feel silly by not doing these things, but biblically we are to avoid all sexual behavior before marriage. So that would be like saying 'i feel silly obeying the bible'.
If, as the bible says, looking at someone with lust is the same as committing adultery in your heart, what do you think sexual behaviors do?
Nothing silly about living sexually pure lives.

 

[Hungry]

I've heard it said girls play at sex to get love and boys play at love to get sex. I know we are talking about men and women but it speaks to how the genders differ mentally, and emotionally about sex. If a person is more sexually experienced there is a good chance that bond has been connected and detached so often sex loses its adhesion. If there is already strong emotional chemistry then by giving yourself to eachother will bring you closer together. Society has done a fantastic job at devaluing sex limiting it to pleasure and release. Without emotional and spiritual connection that's all it becomes.

 

[lost1972]

Don't let yourself get to the point you are, its a short walk to the edge of the cliff from there

 

[lost1972]

Its a slippery slope when you go that far, its best not to go there, its too easy to fall I've been there learn from me and don't make the same mistakes,believe it or not all guys are not just out to get some, we can be hurt too by things going too far

 

[GodBible]

Read Ezekiel 23:20
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[lost1972]

I pray you resist, a good family friend is 14 now and I worry she will end up in that situation, its too easy to get carried away and then things go to far, please don't you will end up regretting it