my miscarrige.

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beliver100

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I had a miscarrige when I was 18. Iam 22 now and I see all of my friends and their kids and I wonder why they got to have their kids and why I had to lose mine. I am constantly sad about this. Me and the guy who would have been the father arent together anymore and now I wont be able to have his kid. Its just upsettinng to know that I would have had a 3 or 4yr old running around and instead I have to watch my friends kids grow up.
 
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Aqua_Girl09

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Maybe it was God's way of showing you that you weren't ready. Its not easy to be a mother. and Kids are very cute and fun but they're a LOT of hard work. IDK if you've ever babysat a child for the weekend. but its HARD. and that would be your LIFE. Its also important to have a father in their life. kids don't make relationships easier. it makes it HARDER and if you guys broke up after NOT having one. then if you'd actually had it then I think you'd probably have a baby daddy on your hands and its a struggle that God didn't want for you. Go play with your friend's kids and know that you'll have your own in your own time.

also, don't rule out adoption. or foster care. you're old enough to be a foster parents already. as long as you have a place for yourself and at least one other room for the child you can do it now. But having kids is HARD. I don't have children personally but I have been working at a daycare for almost 4 years now. I'm usually with the 6 and 7 year olds but I've worked with the 6 weeks old and all the up to the 13 year olds. I've baby sat at home on a NUMBER of occasions and its fun being with them. its also a relief to give them back to their parents. ^_^ i have a life. when you have children they ARE your life. >_^
 
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MelissaSky

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did you say you're upset because you wont be able to have a guys baby that you arent even with anymore?...

and i understand that feeling about seeing your friends with their children. i lost my baby when i was 5 in a half months pregnant with him (when i was 18 too, ill be turning 22 in may)...and im also not with the babys father anymore..and the drama had already begun while i was pregnant..so yeah, wanting to get pregnant again by a guy you're not going to be with in the long run, not a good idea.
 
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