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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over four years now, we are freshmen in college and we met our freshmen year of high school. We've had many struggles over the years with my reluctant parents, struggling to stay in a committed relationship through high school, and yet we've made it through everything. We had even began making plans to get married after college. I believe that I was placed in his life for a very important reason, and recently just this past year, he's been going to church and has accepted Christ. There's been many recent changes in our relationship, and I've just been left lost and alone. Previously in our relationship I had been overbearing, pretty controlling, and just overall not a good girlfriend. Just three weeks ago one night when we had an argument, something in him snapped and he's been a changed person since then. He doesn't take my nonsense anymore (which is totally warrented), and i've been trying to change who I am in the course of three weeks. Last night he told me how unhappy he was in this relationship, how stressed he was with his schoolwork and us, and how he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore. I believe that in order to reconcile our relationship we need to turn back to Christ and make him the center of our relationship again but now he's just plain ignoring me. He's not only my boyfriend, but my best friend and he has been my rock through a lot of turmoils in my life. We both still love each other dearly, but neither of us know how to salvage our relationship. I've been asking God for wisdom and strength, but if anyone has any advice or prayer, please send them my way- thank you!