2
Hey guys this about a really really good friend of mine and I want to give her advice on her situation but I'm going to kind of put it out there first and get some different view points from you all.
So here is goes. This friend of mine comes from a Christian family and very strict on tradition. It all started back In 2009 when her life was all about partying, she had just finish graduating from high school so all she wanted was to just let loose. A phew weeks after graduating she and her cousin went on a holiday to Victoria , met up with some relatives and stayed there for about 4 months. She ended up working with her relatives who owned grape farms. In this period of time she met somebody abit older than her, he approached her at church and asked for her number, but she kind of felt a little uncomfortable that he was a little bit older. This girl was very attractive and very very kind, so she thought for a split second why not. They started talking, met up at after work parties and got really close. Not knowing that this older guy had been married not yet divorced and has 2 children. Cut the story short. A year later she fell pregnant her parents made her consider marriage, he got his divorce papers before she got pregnant and then things started to get rocky. During her pregnancy she experienced heart ache after ache with this guy, all the lies and made up stories later finding out that after she gave birth to her beautiful boy that he had been sleeping with another girl. They officially ended things which last for about 2 years, in those 2 years this friend of mine went through the agony of a broken heart, she loved this guys with all her heart and respected him she also very excitingly gave her life to Christ and had never been this happy and free ever. She started dating other guys and a lot of guys started to court her. She didn't make any sexual contact with any of these guys because she let God down already and she was not willing to let him down again. She would pray to God to bring to her the one he wants her to be with. So Just last month she receives a call from her sons father weeping to her on the phone apologising what he had put her through. He came to see his son and my friend who is now 21 years of age and is a very very wise mature young lady. He got on his knees at the airport and cried for her forgiveness. One thing he said to her was, I did you wrong because I looked at you as my God that I couldn't live without you that you had to be with me 24 hours every single day but God took you away from me so I realise that He is my God he is the one that I need the 24 hours every single day of my life. This moment she is mind blank, he is in tears and crying out Lord forgive me for turning my back on you, but all I ask is for a second chance to prove to my friend that he is a changed man. Now this guy was very jealous of my friend because she is young and beautiful, but what he doesn't understand is she her upbringing was hard strict biblical rules that she knew a d listened to but failed to do. So I'm saying here is he now worthy of a second chance? Or she just setting herself up for another heartbreak by the same guy. Now that he's given his life back to God do you think these two are meant to be together? Might I add he did divorce his wife because she was sexually involved with other men while married to him, but his first wife had divorced to marry him. And we all know that God holds the covenant with the first person you marry. To my understanding and please correct me if she divorced to marry this guy God is still holding her covenant to her fist husband even if she remarried, which she did but also destroyed the marriage by the same reason. so is it okay for him to remarry?
So here is goes. This friend of mine comes from a Christian family and very strict on tradition. It all started back In 2009 when her life was all about partying, she had just finish graduating from high school so all she wanted was to just let loose. A phew weeks after graduating she and her cousin went on a holiday to Victoria , met up with some relatives and stayed there for about 4 months. She ended up working with her relatives who owned grape farms. In this period of time she met somebody abit older than her, he approached her at church and asked for her number, but she kind of felt a little uncomfortable that he was a little bit older. This girl was very attractive and very very kind, so she thought for a split second why not. They started talking, met up at after work parties and got really close. Not knowing that this older guy had been married not yet divorced and has 2 children. Cut the story short. A year later she fell pregnant her parents made her consider marriage, he got his divorce papers before she got pregnant and then things started to get rocky. During her pregnancy she experienced heart ache after ache with this guy, all the lies and made up stories later finding out that after she gave birth to her beautiful boy that he had been sleeping with another girl. They officially ended things which last for about 2 years, in those 2 years this friend of mine went through the agony of a broken heart, she loved this guys with all her heart and respected him she also very excitingly gave her life to Christ and had never been this happy and free ever. She started dating other guys and a lot of guys started to court her. She didn't make any sexual contact with any of these guys because she let God down already and she was not willing to let him down again. She would pray to God to bring to her the one he wants her to be with. So Just last month she receives a call from her sons father weeping to her on the phone apologising what he had put her through. He came to see his son and my friend who is now 21 years of age and is a very very wise mature young lady. He got on his knees at the airport and cried for her forgiveness. One thing he said to her was, I did you wrong because I looked at you as my God that I couldn't live without you that you had to be with me 24 hours every single day but God took you away from me so I realise that He is my God he is the one that I need the 24 hours every single day of my life. This moment she is mind blank, he is in tears and crying out Lord forgive me for turning my back on you, but all I ask is for a second chance to prove to my friend that he is a changed man. Now this guy was very jealous of my friend because she is young and beautiful, but what he doesn't understand is she her upbringing was hard strict biblical rules that she knew a d listened to but failed to do. So I'm saying here is he now worthy of a second chance? Or she just setting herself up for another heartbreak by the same guy. Now that he's given his life back to God do you think these two are meant to be together? Might I add he did divorce his wife because she was sexually involved with other men while married to him, but his first wife had divorced to marry him. And we all know that God holds the covenant with the first person you marry. To my understanding and please correct me if she divorced to marry this guy God is still holding her covenant to her fist husband even if she remarried, which she did but also destroyed the marriage by the same reason. so is it okay for him to remarry?
(I love that word)